Speculations on Lana's relationship with her mother

[cherrytropico 10,032]

25 minutes ago, That Venice Bitch said:

The question she ended up asking 

deadass  you have to opportunity to ask lana any question about her music and this is what you come up with 

[Fingertips 72,093]

33 minutes ago, That Venice Bitch said:

The question she ended up asking 

What a quick thinker 

[PatentLeatherDoOver 25,803]

35 minutes ago, That Venice Bitch said:

The question she ended up asking 

I giggle every time I remember her asking that. Her mind

[Deleted Member 23,763]

that is also so funny because lana was like “no” and then that girl still went on like omg i would’ve shut up right away, even though her question was harmless that was brave  she shut lana DOWN 😭😭

[Mer 51,426]

1 hour ago, fl0r1dakil0s said:

i personally think it's about medication, since it's something lana hasn't ever spoken about and she has spoken about her mother (very minimally but in the live lana emphasized it was something she'd NEVER talked about before in her music)

I was thinking of this and tbh I know we shouldn’t speculate so I’ll put it in a spoiler 

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But I started thinking maybe Lana’s use of illicit hard drugs in her songs (crack, cocaine, heroin, meth) was her way of discussing her actually medically diagnosed anti-depressants. I.e., it was never about heroin/crack/etc. she’s always been talking about anti-depressants that she discussed in WFWF.

 

[American Whore 47,503]

6 minutes ago, Mer said:

I was thinking of this and tbh I know we shouldn’t speculate so I’ll put it in a spoiler 

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But I started thinking maybe Lana’s use of illicit hard drugs in her songs (crack, cocaine, heroin, meth) was her way of discussing her actually medically diagnosed anti-depressants. I.e., it was never about heroin/crack/etc. she’s always been talking about anti-depressants that she discussed in WFWF.

 

 

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i also thought that a lot of it was stuff her mom might've said about her years ago. like boarding school, it sounds very specific and sarcastic. 

 

[Blossom 8,909]

I wonder what Patty's been up to lately 

[luna de miel 3,109]

13 hours ago, Blossom said:

I wonder what Patty's been up to lately 

omg same... Rob never posts about her. Are they even married still?  Anyway...

[littleredpartydress 48,728]

13 hours ago, Blossom said:

I wonder what Patty's been up to lately 

Writing the hottest diss track of all time

[Blossom 8,909]

Just now, Luna de miel said:

omg same... Rob never posts about her. Are they even married still?  Anyway...

he posted her in 2021, but in Lanas recent interview, I think I remember her saying that Rob, Chuck, and Charlie live together so thats confounding if they're still married.

[luna de miel 3,109]

1 minute ago, Blossom said:

he posted her in 2021, but in Lanas recent interview, I think I remember her saying that Rob, Chuck, and Charlie live together so thats confounding if they're still married.

It's all a mystery when it comes to Lana

[Mer 51,426]

I’m still confused why they seemed to be on better terms early in her career (photographed together), and then things seem to really have gotten to a place where Lana is so vocal about her disdain for patty since 2021. 
 

The things she sings about in WFWF and Fingertips, are they perhaps post 2013-14? Anyways. Mothers are complicated. Not everyone can handle motherhood. I had a mother who would…withdraw when it came to difficult things; so I understand, to an extent, what it’s like to feel let down—or maybe even a little betrayed—by the person who should’ve fought for you hardest…

[morrison 355]

I feel so bad about speculating and shit. I know I shouldn't be so curious about it. Lana wants the music to speak for itself - I get that. ANYWAY I still really want the tea abt Patty's bullshit behavior. 

 

Patricia, if I meet you, it's on sight 

[Manson 1,130]

Just came here to say that I've been listening to Sirens a lot lately. And damn... My momma is a very early diss track that (if it's not a fictional story) implies that her mom was the kind of woman who would flirt or get a bit too close with her boyfriends?

 

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My momma, she would love you like I love you
If she ever met you, if she ever knew
My momma, she would fall right on top of you
If she ever saw you, she'd be smitten, too

I'll never take you home
I want you all for my own
Don't let my momma hear your pretty song

 

[LycaneInMoonlight 153]

On this page, there is a fan commentary about Lana's mother told him i quote : " Her mother told me that she lost one daughter in 2010, and Chuck was standing next to me."

What do you think about that ?

 

here the link : https://lanadelrey.fandom.com/wiki/Patricia_Grant

[BartenderDeco 19,402]

so weird to keep coming back to this thread the more music comes out… and the more we know about patty

[BartenderDeco 19,402]

On 1/10/2023 at 3:15 PM, cherrytropico said:

deadass  you have to opportunity to ask lana any question about her music and this is what you come up with 

i was so pissed off when she asked her ‘do you say bore or whore in fmwuttt’ like you coulda checked genius and asked her ANY QUESTION IN THE WORLD! asking about the unreleased album is a no brainer for any lana stan

no hate though she seems like a great fan

[SalvaWHORE 32,629]

so basically did she really said  "Elizabeth, you'll end up in an instituition for the rest of your life"?

[genghis khan 5,079]

21 minutes ago, SalvaWHORE said:

so basically did she really said  "Elizabeth, you'll end up in an instituition for the rest of your life"?

confused. where are you getting this from?

[That Venice Bitch 23,642]

25 minutes ago, genghis khan said:

confused. where are you getting this from?

Not OP, but Lana says this in Fingertips:

 

"What kind of mother was she to say I'd end up in institutions?"

And then

"What the fuck's wrong in your head to send me away never to come back?"