Yes!!! It's the absolute obliteration of Lolita as a person! I've been reading "Monsters" by Claire Dederer and it has a chapter about this- how Lolita (the novel) being written as it is serves a function to communicate the total destruction of a human being, we never see her as anything but a concept or object through Humbert's eyes. I think Lana definitely captures that feeling in the song, especially that sinking feeling with the strings. It hits me in the gut every time. It's so interesting!