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Everything posted by Dark Angel
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she likely doesn't even know about what he's shared on facebook, so let's not try to assume exactly how she feels for right now, obviously it's not great that she's married to somebody who supports trump, i can't imagine she doesn't know that, but we don't know to what extent she knows about him and how he specifically feels, i get the impression that she isn't necessarily the type of person to go out of their way to do some digging on the person they're with but, i understand the disappointment in general, this is just not a great situation
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i would hope that if she did know, it would change her impression of him... like that "meme" was so disturbing, i want to believe that she wouldn't be okay with someone she's so close to sharing photos of people severely beaten as a way to discriminate against others like that, but i suppose you never really know, i just don't understand how some people can look past stuff like that, even if it perhaps doesn't directly impact them
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besides his political views and that whole debate... i've seen many people online (reddit) claim that she's trying to act poor/white trash... which i find to be very stupid and really ignorant, she's cosplaying as someone poor/white trash because she's getting married in the south? or because she had an outdoorsy wedding? it really goes to show how they view the south! people are literally so shallow, dumb, and ignorant, i even saw people say that stuff because she thrifted her dress
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i honestly see both sides of the argument, and i feel like it's somewhat nuanced, i feel happy for her, and i genuinely wish her the best, and i don't think we should automatically assume it's going to end badly, make silly, snide jokes about her upcoming divorce album, or completely denounce her as a person, but... i do believe we have every right to be disappointed in and concerned about the man she's choosing to marry i don't think some of you really understand how alarming it is that she's choosing to be with somebody who actively and fervently supports donald trump, someone who wants to strip away the rights of many, perhaps you don't think it will make any difference to you, but many people, LGBT, POC, women, ETC will be negatively impacted by him becoming president once again, if he wins, it could affect the rights and the general life happiness and satisfaction of LGBT people, women may no longer be able to acesss abortions, or perhaps even birth control, and some republicans have even stated that interracial marriage should be left to the states, it genuinely could impact you and your life, and if not you, it could impact somebody you care about and love, her husband literally shared graphic violence towards transgender women on facebook, and, no matter how you feel about certain sociopolitical matters, violence, discrimination and hatred isn't okay, and it isn't normal or something we should just look past, and we have every right to be disappointed that she married somebody who holds those kinds of views, and we shouldn't just brush it off as us being parasocial, or needing to touch grass ultimately, we're all very invested in her, and we're all parasocial to an extent, we're literally registered on a website entirely dedicated to her, some of us have thousands of posts, so it shouldn't come as any surprise that we naturally want to discuss what's happening in her life, she is a public figure after all, and it was inevitable people were going to find out about her husband's political views, she made the choice to marry someone like that, and although we ultimately should respect her autonomy and her ability to make decisions, it's silly to expect people who are very invested in her as an artist, and even as a person, to not have thoughts on it i think we just need to keep it as civil as possible, despite the fact that we are discussing pretty heavy topics that people often feel strongly about
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it depends... i feel like some people pull that off, and some do not... depending on what they choose to wear would you date someone who strongly dislikes cats/dogs?
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if my father were still alive he'd be in his 70s, and i don't think jeremy being old when his potential, future children are grown-up is really anything to worry about or be weird about, some people just end up having kids at older ages, i understand the concern, but i think that's between the two individuals having children also i thought jeremy was only 49?
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i feel like there's a fine-line between making observations, and making assumptions, and i don't necessarily think it's wrong to have concerns, since, although she's known him since 2019, it appears that they've only been dating for the past few months (although we don't exactly know with certainty how long they've been dating) and most people would argue that getting married to someone you've just recently started dating isn't ideal and could have very negative consequences, especially considering his views, how do you really know what someone's like if you haven't speak at least several years being together? and to think she could start living with him? and having children with him? getting married isn't just some random, silly thing you do, so it would make sense as to why people feel concerned, at the end of the day, i completely respect her choices, i don't want to diminish her autonomy, but we have the right to our opinions, especially when it's something major, like her getting married so quickly (although you could also say it's none of our business, which is true, yet... she's famous and obviously people are going to have something to say about the details of her life, especially her own fans)
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also i do find it extremely bothersome that he was caught liking thrist-traps on tiktok very recently i know it sounds terrible to say, but that almost bothers me more than him supporting trump, maybe just because it's just so common for men to act like little sex-pests, and for the most part, they get excused for it like how women are told to expect their boyfriends/husbands to watch porn, despite the fact that they already have beautiful girlfriends and wives... also the porn industry is vile but perhaps i'm getting off-track it just bothers me IDK
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although i've been generally positive... here are my thoughts on it all i am very, very happy for her, it's clear that being married is something she's always wanted, and i can only imagine how wonderful she must feel right now, and i would like to believe she knows what she's doing and that she's making the correct choice, but i do find it concerning that she's marrying someone who clearly doesn't hold the best views, it really isn't about him being conservative, or being southern or whatever (also, hating on him for being southern, being some regular dude, or being more rugged is gross AF and very close-minded) and i know not every single trump supporter is automatically hateful or bad, some trump supporters probably aren't even that well-informed on politics and don't even know what they're supporting (i would know lol ) and i can't know exactly how he feels, or exactly why he supports him, but the hateful views he holds are very concerning, and i would find it quite disappointing if she knew about them, but didn't care, or felt that she could look past them at the end of the day, she's going to be sharing her life with him, in so many different ways, they will share finances, their living space, sleep in the same bed, and possibly have children, and you cannot do that with just anybody, especially not someone who doesn't believe in your right to have an abortion if you need one, because, what if she got pregnant and something went wrong? sure, some conservative men perhaps will make exceptions for their wives, even if they don't believe others should have the right to it, but we don't know what he's like, and although OFC lana's not transgender, and maybe they don't know many or any transgender individuals, she's still with someone who clearly doesn't like them at all and has even promoted violence towards them, i wouldn't want to be with someone, especially so closely, knowing that they feel that way, it's not okay, and i doubt that she would genuinely be okay with that, at least, i hope not, i'm hoping for the best, but i hope that if anything comes up, and she's not okay with it, that she will be able to leave and come out of it unscathed, although i'm sure it would really hurt for her to have to go through that, considering how important it must be for her to get married, and to possibly have children, she is 39, and when you get older, having children can become more difficult, so i can understand why she just wants to find the right thing and to be able to have those opportunities, i just hope it works out for her