I respect that. My problem is it that this woman is more impactful than she seems to understand.
Taylor Swift got hundreds of thousands of people (to register) to vote for Kamala Harris bc of a Instagram post. Jeremy's voice (metaphorically) is amplified just like that now that Lana is Lana Del Dufrene or Lizzy Dufrene or some shit. If she convinces him that beating up trans women in bathrooms is a dickhead thing to do, good. But I don't see her doing that. I don't wanna wake up one day to Question for the Culture 2.0: "But why can't we beat trans women up? Hmm? Really makes u think!"
she's influenced by her partners more than the other way around, if she marries this man and becomes an anti-trans, anti-queer Trump supporter? that would be awful.