soap opera 67 Posted July 10, 2020 I’m sorry some of our users were rude to you, you’re right that you’re allowed to voice your opinions but like electra said, you could’ve worded it differently and I’m sure people wouldn’t have come for you. You’re not the first to talk about her weight and, honestly, it’s getting tired. People gain and lose weight. I don’t think it’s healthy to comment her weight, a potential pregnancy or her looks every time she shares a picture of herself. Also, there might be people here who are self conscious of their body and might get affected about someone’s words about Lana, even if it wasn’t directed to them. Not too long ago, I felt really uncomfortable reading someone’s comments here on LanaBoards. I think @mergirl/@Deadly Cruel Girl might’ve gotten too personal since they have sad memories of their siblings. Lana might’ve gained weight (I personally haven’t noticed anything but maybe I’m not scrutinizing her enough) but she’s not obese, and comparing her to Adele who’s been bigger for almost her entire career as a singer isn’t fair. We all care about Lana, but that means that we support her no matter how she looks and worry for her when it’s for a good reason. You guys are clearly worried about her now, but most of us aren’t. But don’t think we’re cold hearted either, we have written plenty of times about our worry for her smoking and vaping habits. That being said, don’t think you can’t voice your opinions, but try to do it when it’s for a valid reason and to word it better next time. This time, you hit the nerve on quite many of us. This wasn’t the first time we’ve read negative comments about her weight and it sure won’t be the last time either. How come no one ever comments that she looks slimmer? I do agree though that some LB users can have bad manners when they get upset, calling others bad words or telling them to suck a dick/kill themselves/etc is never really necessary. That’s something I’d like to see an improvement of. this has nothing to do with wording . yall get triggered the second someone says anything about lanas appearance. its toxic that you all project these opinions on yourselves. please go back and read my very first post talking about how she doesnt looks good in the video. i literally said something like "i dont wanna bring negative energy but she doesnt look good". thats literally as nice as anyone could ever word it and yet it still got people triggered. yall still found a way to find something wrong with it so fuck saying things in a nice manner if youre going to find something wrong with it im going to say what i want to say the way i want to say it because either way you all will find something wrong with it. and i still stand by everything i said 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rust Dress 40,121 Posted July 10, 2020 Oh my god not this drama again. Millionaire or not, you don’t talk badly about someone’s appearance. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rorman Nockwell 56,493 Posted July 10, 2020 @@soap opera We get it, you hate how she looks Jesus Christ, bro. Move on 7 Quote ur legit gonna look the same stop buying oil of Olay face cream Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ArtDecoDelRey 15,281 Posted July 10, 2020 The last few pages really said homophobia or misogyny, which do u choose not that this excuses me from being homophobic, but I am a gay man. I was just pointing out the hypocrisy from, and cruelty towards female celebrities that often comes from white gay men when they don't look 100% how they want them to. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
M J 259 Posted July 10, 2020 Y’all really get so defensive when someone has something to say about Lana’s image when literally everything she has done was based on her image. Like, honestly I don’t agree with soap opera- i think she looked okay in the video she posted, but you people are too much 1 Quote i know i go-go dance, but i do it 4 kicks Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TrashMagiq 58,429 Posted July 10, 2020 why is it that whenever someone gets called out for trashing lana’s looks they say they’re just voicing their opinion as if saying someone looks bad is like saying a song is bad... y’all are weird 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WilshireBoulevard 5,420 Posted July 10, 2020 not that this excuses me from being homophobic, but I am a gay man. I was just pointing out the hypocrisy from, and cruelty towards female celebrities that often comes from white gay men when they don't look 100% how they want them to. Wasn't directed at u dw, very much read the cliffnotes 1 Quote locals only Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
M J 259 Posted July 10, 2020 All of you preaching political correctness while stanning Lana Del Rey. What a circus 0 Quote i know i go-go dance, but i do it 4 kicks Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rorman Nockwell 56,493 Posted July 10, 2020 All of you preaching political correctness while stanning Lana Del Rey. What a circus I know, it's really crazy! It's almost as if humans are complex beings capable of possessing a vast range of thoughts, opinions, and interests that don't fit with your personal expectations. 3 Quote ur legit gonna look the same stop buying oil of Olay face cream Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
M J 259 Posted July 10, 2020 I know, it's really crazy! It's almost as if humans are complex beings capable of possessing a vast range of thoughts, opinions, and interests that don't fit with your personal expectations. Wowwww what a smartass, not 0 Quote i know i go-go dance, but i do it 4 kicks Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ShadesOfFool 20,112 Posted July 10, 2020 Idk it's weird how some members here bash Lana for her fillers and then talk shit about members talking about her weight (which I don't agree with btw), but it's funny how some of ya'll turnhi I know this was about me. I think there’s a difference between saying “her lips look uneven in this pic” and “she gained weight she’s gonna die” But this topic is so last night. Sorry if I got a little too spicy for LB. I will return to my usual business of disliking jack antanoff and wondering who off to the races is about (it’s mike right? It’s gotta be mike) 1 Quote let's be real, all you bitches wanna look like me Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rorman Nockwell 56,493 Posted July 10, 2020 Wowwww what a smartass, not Like I just said - personal expectations! 1 Quote ur legit gonna look the same stop buying oil of Olay face cream Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
M J 259 Posted July 10, 2020 Like I just said - personal expectations! still fucking hilarious mate 0 Quote i know i go-go dance, but i do it 4 kicks Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rorman Nockwell 56,493 Posted July 10, 2020 still fucking hilarious mate Oh, I am most definitely not your mate ... 2 Quote ur legit gonna look the same stop buying oil of Olay face cream Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
M J 259 Posted July 10, 2020 Oh, I am most definitely not your mate ... SuRe M8, n i Am Dying to be your m8 xxxx gtfo of my mentions 0 Quote i know i go-go dance, but i do it 4 kicks Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Flowerbomb 65,592 Posted July 10, 2020 hi I know this was about me. I think there’s a difference between saying “her lips look uneven in this pic” and “she gained weight she’s gonna die” But this topic is so last night. Sorry if I got a little too spicy for LB. I will return to my usual business of disliking jack antanoff and wondering who off to the races is about (it’s mike right? It’s gotta be mike) I wasn't targeting you specifically, I don't remember coming across your post about her lips but I agree, this topic needs to disappear asap 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
soap opera 67 Posted July 10, 2020 I know, it's really crazy! It's almost as if humans are complex beings capable of possessing a vast range of thoughts, opinions, and interests that don't fit with your personal expectations. clearly yall arent as complex as you make yourselves out to be if you cant handle someones opinion on a public forum 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
daphnedinkley 13,373 Posted July 10, 2020 anyways thick women are hot 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gatadelrey 4,616 Posted July 10, 2020 Lana is hot as fuck at any weight. She is so beautiful. I think she looks incredible in her recent selfies. I think maybe some people forget about various factors like if she was ever at any point addicted to drugs, once you stop you gain some weight. Your body changes. She also just recently said in her interview that she leans on Ben and Ed for emotional support and has anxiety, she’s sensitive. I really hope she never reads some of the comments about her weight on here, Twitter, or anywhere else. Words can be incredibly damaging for someone that is so sensitive. 10 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WilshireBoulevard 5,420 Posted July 10, 2020 clearly yall arent as complex as you make yourselves out to be if you cant handle someones opinion on a public forum You say this after making every single one of your posts about how ppl are censoring you and how ugly you think Lana is? Please get a hobby? 8 Quote locals only Share this post Link to post Share on other sites