Cult Leader 6,270 Posted January 20 How would this be Lana's fault, he's probably a third party hire and the company he works for is responsible for vetting him. Idk what's going on with Ben, or where his PR is cause they never seem to get their image together, it's so annoying. Maybe they're studying how to fire him,what new company to hire since they manage artists they probably have a deal with this security company????? I don't know, you don't know, no one knows. And if is a third party company, do they also work with the other artists Ben manages? What are the logistics of that? Maybe they're vetting the girl's claims and all that corporate shit. Some people just seem to jump to the worst conclusions like who knows what is going on, maybe they already requested a different bodyguard for Lana? If he works for an independent company I can't imagine Ben just walks in and is like yo fire him. If he's not a third party contractor then they'll have to break contract. Truth is, we simply don't know. And if you just think Lana is the worst person ever just leave, don't stream? Like I don't know what else to tell you. I really hope the girl is safe though and I'm sorry that happened to her. 8 Quote ย ย ๐ด ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ย Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drugsdesire 10,437 Posted January 20 50 minutes ago, kingk said: ย where did i say any of that? ย is may 2024, nearing a whole year,ย considered "onlyย recently"?ย ย 2 hours ago, kingk said: every time someone on here criticizes lana, they immediately get shut downย ย first, people are allowed opinions. second, accept the possibility of her mistake rather than blindly defending her, especiallyย when all the information points in the wrong direction.ย ย how is it her mistakeย ย make it make sense sis 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blueskiesforever 580 Posted January 20 1 minute ago, Cult Leader said: How would this be Lana's fault, he's probably a third party hire and the company he works for is responsible for vetting him. Idk what's going on with Ben, or where his PR is cause they never seem to get their image together, it's so annoying. Maybe they're studying how to fire him,what new company to hire since they manage artists they probably have a deal with this security company????? I don't know, you don't know, no one knows. And if is a third party company, do they also work with the other artists Ben manages? What are the logistics of that? Maybe they're vetting the girl's claims and all that corporate shit. Some people just seem to jump to the worst conclusions like who knows what is going on, maybe they already requested a different bodyguard for Lana? If he works for an independent company I can't imagine Ben just walks in and is like yo fire him. If he's not a third party contractor then they'll have to break contract. Truth is, we simply don't know. And if you just think Lana is the worst person ever just leave, don't stream? Like I don't know what else to tell you. I really hope the girl is safe though and I'm sorry that happened to her. Yesย he works for Black Box Security.ย 4 Quote So if you don't know, don't give up , 'Cause you never know what the new day might bring Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cult Leader 6,270 Posted January 20 2 minutes ago, blueskiesforever said: Yesย he works for Black Box Security.ย See, that's tricky as hell then. Porbably a lot of paperwork to go through, and it's the responsibility of THAT company to vet and fire him. The most Tap management can probably do is forward the claims and ask for another bodyguard. The girl should be in contact with his actual boss then. You can't fire someone from a company you don't own or manage. 4 Quote ย ย ๐ด ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ย Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kingk 603 Posted January 20 3 minutes ago, drugsdesire said: ย ย how is it her mistakeย ย make it make sense sis i said the possibility of her mistake ย bc you guys are grasping at straws shifting the blame entirely away from her and placing it on her team which she chose to hire and associate with btw as if they make every single decision and she has no autonomy whatsoever.ย my god 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drugsdesire 10,437 Posted January 20 8 minutes ago, kingk said: i said the possibility of her mistake ย bc you guys are grasping at straws shifting the blame entirely away from her and placing it on her team which she chose to hire and associate with btw as if they make every single decision and she has no autonomy whatsoever.ย my god the girl literally cannot get a hold of lana unless she goes through her team. the team is entirely at fault here. lana hired the bodyguard before the abuse even started. was she supposed to sense it and predict it ๐ญ? youโre grasping at straws trying to make it about lana when her team is the weird one for silencing the victim. lana is autonomous but she surely cannot see everything that happens around her if she barely even uses instagram and does not have twitter/X which is what the girl primarilyย uses. her team could have told her about this, but instead tapmusic is deleting comments and ben is blocking peopleย ย 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddisease 18,361 Posted January 20 5 hours ago, MrFameKills said: Go away weirdo The girl literally shouting out Blue Banisters in her post on X and y'all talking about what Lana did and didnt do... ย 5 hours ago, honeymoon is alive said: girl why are you here thenย ย You know that people can be fans of someone while criticizing them and they don't even think that they need to be a good person for that to be true, @both of you. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddisease 18,361 Posted January 20 31 minutes ago, Cult Leader said: How would this be Lana's fault, he's probably a third party hire and the company he works for is responsible for vetting him. Idk what's going on with Ben, or where his PR is cause they never seem to get their image together, it's so annoying. Maybe they're studying how to fire him,what new company to hire since they manage artists they probably have a deal with this security company????? I don't know, you don't know, no one knows. And if is a third party company, do they also work with the other artists Ben manages? What are the logistics of that? Maybe they're vetting the girl's claims and all that corporate shit. Some people just seem to jump to the worst conclusions like who knows what is going on, maybe they already requested a different bodyguard for Lana? If he works for an independent company I can't imagine Ben just walks in and is like yo fire him. If he's not a third party contractor then they'll have to break contract. Truth is, we simply don't know. And if you just think Lana is the worst person ever just leave, don't stream? Like I don't know what else to tell you. I really hope the girl is safe though and I'm sorry that happened to her. ย ย Imo: it's not Lana's fault bc she couldn't have known bc her team is consistently garbage. But it could be her fault debatably bc her team has always been garbage. 1 hour ago, honeymoon is alive said: no one here is getting shut downย and why on earth this would be her mistake if this man is an employee from a security team (not personally contracted) and the last time he was seen with lana was back in august during the concerts, when no one knew about the abuse ย he could probably be fired by now while everyone here is talking like lana is hiding him in her houseย ย You literally told someone they shouldn't be here... 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kingk 603 Posted January 20 3 minutes ago, drugsdesire said: the girl literally cannot get a hold of lana unless she goes through her team. the team is entirely at fault here. lana hired the bodyguard before the abuse even started. was she supposed to sense it and predict it ๐ญ? youโre grasping at straws trying to make it about lana when her team is the weird one for silencing the victim. lana is autonomous but she surely cannot see everything that happens around her if she barely even uses instagram and does not have twitter/X which is what the girl primarilyย uses. her team could have told her about this, but instead tapmusic is deleting comments and ben is blocking peopleย ย ย honestly,ย if i am to placeย blame i will do so on anyone involved for allowing this to continue nearing a year after the victim contacted everybody within her cicle. and whether she knows or not, i think she would still be liable to an extent but that is besides my point. myย point hereย is that you guys always do this, you always shiftย blame, you always allow negligence and ignorance. every time. also it directly involvesย lana, if anything for her own safety, and i would like to think it would become personal to her too when the man she has given her dogs to, apparently bought clothes for and surrounded herself withย even if purely for professional purposesย currently has a restraining order against his ex partner for DV? ย thats it 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vrsyva 49 Posted January 20 whatโs his name?ย 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cult Leader 6,270 Posted January 20 3 minutes ago, baddisease said: ย ย Imo: it's not Lana's fault bc she couldn't have known bc her team is consistently garbage. But it could be her fault debatably bc her team has always been garbage. ย ย I'm really not saying this to be confrontational or aggressive or anything really, I like you and I think you're cool! But realistically, Lana nor Ben are his boss, they're not the CEO or HR of Black Box security, when you hire a third party service you're not that involved in background checks, the most they can do is request a new security guard and forward all of this info. I know cause my dad does a similar thing for his company, like he's polite and friendly to the security guards, but he's not all in their business y'know? I hope this girl gets in contact with Black Box security because they're the ones who can do something like firing him. I don't mean to blindly defend, I'm thinking about this logically, and like I said you can't fire someone from a company you're not in charge of. You can only say hey I don't want to work with this person anymore for these reasons please look into it and send me another bodyguard. I hope this guy gets fired cause he's awful, but that's Black Box's responsibility 5 Quote ย ย ๐ด ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ย Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drugsdesire 10,437 Posted January 20 1 minute ago, kingk said: ย honestly,ย if i am to placeย blame i will do so on anyone involved for allowing this to continue nearing a year after the victim contacted everybody within her cicle. and whether she knows or not, i think she would still be liable to an extent but that is besides my point. myย point hereย is that you guys always do this, you always shiftย blame, you always allow negligence and ignorance. every time. also it directly involvesย lana, if anything for her own safety, and i would like to think it would become personal to her too when the man she has given her dogs to, apparently bought clothes for and surrounded herself withย even if purely for professional purposesย currently has a restraining order against his ex partner for DV? ย thats it iโm not shifting blame when the fullย blame shouldnโt be on her in the first placeย ย i understand where youโre coming from, but i donโt agree. sure it directly involves lana, but she canโtย do anything about it if she doesnโt know. and if her team were to inform her, or if she were to find out someway, which i hope happens, she would know and take the right steps. i hope she knows and i hope she fires him, but her team is stopping that by silencing people and the girl for speaking out. i do get what ur saying butโฆ 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Angel 205,962 Posted January 20 deleted my other post because i found it misinformed and a bit crass, but i just think we shouldn'tย automatically assumeย lana's aware of the allegations and is supporting her bodyguard regardless, when we don't even know these people, what's going on in their personal lives, or how they feel about said occurrences ย NGL it sometimes feels like some people here are just eager for an opportunity to hate on lana, to have reason to criticize her, or just want any sort of drama surrounding her they can discuss and make themselves look good about, which i find quite pathetic ย if her bodyguard really was just some random guy who was hired from a third-party company, i really find it ridiculous to put so much blame onย herย when it's literally just some dude she hired, it's not like he works closely and personally with her, he likely works as a bodyguard for other people as well and is just fulfilling his role, and likely isn't too directly involve with her or her life 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddisease 18,361 Posted January 20 2 minutes ago, Cult Leader said: I'm really not saying this to be confrontational or aggressive or anything really, I like you and I think you're cool! But realistically, Lana nor Ben are his boss, they're not the CEO or HR of Black Box security, when you hire a third party service you're not that involved in background checks, the most they can do is request a new security guard and forward all of this info. I know cause my dad does a similar thing for his company, like he's polite and friendly to the security guards, but he's not all in their business y'know? I hope this girl gets in contact with Black Box security because they're the ones who can do something like firing him. I don't mean to blindly defend, I'm thinking about this logically, and like I said you can't fire someone from a company you're not in charge of. You can only say hey I don't want to work with this person anymore for these reasons please look into it and send me another bodyguard. I hope this guy gets fired cause he's awful, but that's Black Box's responsibility ย ย Awww. I like you too! ย ย She's not responsible for that, but she knows how really bad Ben and Ed are with a lot of things. And those two, or at least Ben, is responsible for blocking people for bringing it up. His reaction and the reaction of the people on her team - the ones she does have the ability to control to some degree - make her responsible in my eyes. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kingk 603 Posted January 20 Just now, baddisease said: His reaction and the reaction of the people on her team - the ones she does have the ability to control to some degree - make her responsible in my eyes. this is how i feel. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cult Leader 6,270 Posted January 20 Just now, baddisease said: ย ย Awww. I like you too! ย ย She's not responsible for that, but she knows how really bad Ben and Ed are with a lot of things. And those two, or at least Ben, is responsible for blocking people for bringing it up. His reaction and the reaction of the people on her team - the ones she does have the ability to control to some degree - make her responsible in my eyes. I see what you mean! I also don't like How Tap management is handling this. We'll see how this story develops and again I just hope this girl is safe 4 Quote ย ย ๐ด ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ย Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Angel 205,962 Posted January 20 5 minutes ago, baddisease said: ย ย Awww. I like you too! ย ย She's not responsible for that, but she knows how really bad Ben and Ed are with a lot of things. And those two, or at least Ben, is responsible for blocking people for bringing it up. His reaction and the reaction of the people on her team - the ones she does have the ability to control to some degree - make her responsible in my eyes. ย her team, which is comprised of individual people who have their own thoughts, beliefs, and actions, do not automatically reflect her as a person, she can't be directly responsible for everything they do, i'm sorry, but that's very unfair to her, should she be obligated to check in on and approve ofย absolutely everything each individual person on her team does? she hires people to work for her and has to trust to some extent that they will do the right things, but that doesn't always mean they will, because they're all individual people at the end of the day who will do what they believe to be right, and she can't be blamed for other people's wrong actions 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dexter 2,573 Posted January 20 3 minutes ago, Dark Angel said: ย if her bodyguard really was just some random guy who was hired from a third-party company, i really find it ridiculous to put so much blame onย herย when it's literally just some dude she hired, if a couple hires someoneย to fix their roof and the guy who fixes their roof turns out to be abusive to their partner, is it the couple's fault? should we assume the couple's going to know everything about the guy who fixes their roof? no, that's ridiculous there friends. I donโt know how else to put it but you donโt give away your dogs and buy clothes for someone that just works for you. also he was allegedly with Jeremy on his tours. heโs a friend.ย If Ben is deleting comments about this situation and ignoring complaints it proves her team are shielding him and protecting him.ย letโs not dance around it, sheโs not oblivious to everything that goes on she most likely knows about it.ย We canโt just say itโs her teams fault, her team is literally a reflection of her, on her payroll, and therefore if there is no action taken about this she is also to blameย 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites