baddisease 18,065 Posted 16 hours ago 3 minutes ago, fl0r1dakil0s said: ????? girl i'm on a lana del rey forum the fuck do you think i am what ?? i literally probably have more irl trans friends than you do.. like i know at least 30 trans adults (it's important to signify that they aren't minors) on a very close level and i'd say about 75% of them support absolute free speech - i only personally know like 6 trans ppl who don't believe that people should be able to publicly present any opinion they feel represents their worldview and they're mostly public figures who only don't do so to not start drama and would think something very differently if they weren't public figures Like I said, no amount of your free speech debate shit will keep the right from coming after you. You can't talk or reason your way out of what they want. First of all: I am trans, I work with trans people, I organize with them. I know more than you do. It's even ridiculous to suggest otherwise. Also I HIGHLY doubt they'd be okay with the right-wing doing what they're doing. Absolute free speech only empowers the people who want to marginalize us and you've yet to actually demonstrate how it helps us. Like I said, I'll never be a free speech bro bc I know that it can be harmful. 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddisease 18,065 Posted 16 hours ago I'm going to leave these here https://time.com/6171183/elon-musk-free-speech-tech-bro/ https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2024/11/elon-musk-donald-trump-free-speech-bro.html 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fl0r1dakil0s 21,678 Posted 16 hours ago 4 minutes ago, baddisease said: Also I HIGHLY doubt they'd be okay with the right-wing doing what they're doing. Absolute free speech only empowers the people who want to marginalize us and you've yet to actually demonstrate how it helps us. Like I said, I'll never be a free speech bro bc I know that it can be harmful. you don't have to identify as a "free speech bro" lol but you're wrong. your beliefs marginalize your own people and largely hold society back. it's unfortunate 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddisease 18,065 Posted 16 hours ago Just now, fl0r1dakil0s said: you don't have to identify as a "free speech bro" lol but you're wrong. you're beliefs marginalize your own people and largely society back. it's unfortunate How? That's not even logical. Just read what I linked. Also just saying "you're wrong" doesn't actually make me wrong. 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fl0r1dakil0s 21,678 Posted 16 hours ago 1 minute ago, baddisease said: How? That's not even logical because you maintain that free speech should be restricted?? 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddisease 18,065 Posted 16 hours ago Just now, fl0r1dakil0s said: because you maintain that free speech should be restricted?? Unrestricted free speech marginalizes us According to you, restricting it marginalizes us. What, precisely, won't? 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ultrabanisters 47,198 Posted 16 hours ago 5 hours ago, fl0r1dakil0s said: person A, let's call him ultrabanisters (hi and pls leave me alone w the warnings) Spoiler but anywayz my two cents is that i am all for free speech but also for consequences of said free speech. it is up to the platform to decide what they want on their site, and if protecting their users from a hateful rhetoric is one of the 'wants' on said site, you agree to abide by those rules when you participate. if you do not want to abide by those rules, you agree to open yourself up to the repercussions of free speech. if someone doesnt like it, there are plenty of different social media sites to choose from that will foster that rhetoric 5 Quote resident sweeter 24/7/17 - 9/7/23 - 10/7/23 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fl0r1dakil0s 21,678 Posted 16 hours ago 20 minutes ago, baddisease said: What, precisely, won't? perhaps encouraging and allowing true unrestricted free speech ??? which almost doesn't exist on any large social media platform as of today btw Spoiler ohhh i can just tell the mods r dying to give me another mod queue omfg can we play the be nice to me challenge ?? 😭😭 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddisease 18,065 Posted 15 hours ago 10 minutes ago, fl0r1dakil0s said: perhaps encouraging and allowing true unrestricted free speech ??? which almost doesn't exist on any large social media platform as of today btw Reveal hidden contents ohhh i can just tell ur dying to give me another mod queue omfg can we play the be nice to me challenge ?? 😭😭 I'll be nicer. I don't see how unrestricted free speech will do that. There's been unrestricted free speech outside of SM and it's all led to what's happening now. 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ultrabanisters 47,198 Posted 15 hours ago 15 minutes ago, fl0r1dakil0s said: Hide contents ohhh i can just tell ur dying to give me another mod queue omfg can we play the be nice to me challenge ?? 😭😭 idk why you have this preconceived notion of me wanting to give you a mod queue like why would i want to give you a warning for anything.. id rather people just get along. i was actually going to comment that this thread has been quite civilised given the subject matter but whatevurrr every time we lock a thread or warn or whatever, we say you can disagree but please keep it civilised. warnings are only really issued where there are personal attacks or name calling. your postings in this thread (thus far ) have been completely fine 4 Quote resident sweeter 24/7/17 - 9/7/23 - 10/7/23 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fl0r1dakil0s 21,678 Posted 15 hours ago 27 minutes ago, ultrabanisters said: idk why you have this preconceived notion of me wanting to give you a mod queue like why would i want to give you a warning for anything.. id rather people just get along. i was actually going to comment that this thread has been quite civilised giving the subject matter but whatevurrr well i actually do like u a lot bae but one of the warnings u gave me was fucking absurd you warned and put me on mod queue (for 3 whole weeks) for posting a fucking meme lol (this one) .. it's laughable imo.. images are very much valid responses and i'll die on that grave no matter how many times i'm unfairly suspended 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EstelsDream 851 Posted 13 hours ago IMO American politics is more messy than my mental health 3 Quote Taste's like 4th of julyy... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cheaptrailertrashglm 3,607 Posted 13 hours ago 3 hours ago, fl0r1dakil0s said: ????? girl i'm on a lana del rey forum the fuck do you think i am what ?? i literally probably have more irl trans friends than you do.. like i know at least 30 trans adults (it's important to signify that they aren't minors) on a very close level and i'd say about 75% of them support absolute free speech - i only personally know like 6 trans ppl who don't believe they should be able to publicly present any opinion they feel represents their worldview and they're mostly public figures who only don't do so to not start drama and would think something very differently if they weren't public figures My husband and I are both bi. We have many friends in the lgbtq community and many democratic friends and not a single person supports limiting free speech either. IMO I feel like it’s only the people who spend majority of their time online who want to limit speech. 3 hours ago, baddisease said: Like I said, no amount of your free speech debate shit will keep the right from coming after you. You can't talk or reason your way out of what they want. First of all: I am trans, I work with trans people, I organize with them. I know more than you do. It's even ridiculous to suggest otherwise. Also I HIGHLY doubt they'd be okay with the right-wing doing what they're doing. Absolute free speech only empowers the people who want to marginalize us and you've yet to actually demonstrate how it helps us. Like I said, I'll never be a free speech bro bc I know that it can be harmful. So you just wanted limited speech from people who disagree with you. 0 Quote ~INSTA~ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jaesana 3,962 Posted 12 hours ago None of these billionaires are free speech absolutists. Musk banned “cis” from X and Zuckerberg actively suppressed information about the genocide of Uyghurs in China Y’all can keep having this conversation about free speech vs. hate speech but at the end of the day any speech will be censored if it affects these freaks’ profit motives. There is a 100% chance Zuck and Musk are secretly celebrating the mass censorship of TikTok. That’s not very free speechy. We’re at the mercy of these people. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cheaptrailertrashglm 3,607 Posted 12 hours ago 1 minute ago, jaesana said: None of these billionaires are free speech absolutists. Musk banned “cis” from X and Zuckerberg actively suppressed information about the genocide of Uyghurs in China Y’all can keep having this conversation about free speech vs. hate speech but at the end of the day any speech will be censored if it affects these freaks’ profit motives. There is a 100% chance Zuck and Musk are secretly celebrating the mass censorship of TikTok. That’s not very free speechy. We’re at the mercy of these people. I think we all can agree that these people suck and no one supports them limiting speech either. 1 Quote ~INSTA~ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddisease 18,065 Posted 12 hours ago 20 minutes ago, cheaptrailertrashglm said: My husband and I are both bi. We have many friends in the lgbtq community and many democratic friends and not a single person supports limiting free speech either. IMO I feel like it’s only the people who spend majority of their time online who want to limit speech. So you just wanted limited speech from people who disagree with you. If anyone "disagrees" with trans rights, they can fuck all the way off. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddisease 18,065 Posted 12 hours ago Also that minorities deserve rights isn't something I'm willing to debate with anyone. Why in the world are people dying on the hate speech hill? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bluechemtrails 27,771 Posted 12 hours ago 3 hours ago, fl0r1dakil0s said: ????? girl i'm on a lana del rey forum the fuck do you think i am what ?? i literally probably have more irl trans friends than you do.. like i know at least 30 trans adults (it's important to signify that they aren't minors) on a very close level and i'd say about 75% of them support absolute free speech - i only personally know like 6 trans ppl who don't believe they should be able to publicly present any opinion they feel represents their worldview and they're mostly public figures who only don't do so to not start drama and would think something very differently if they weren't public figures Unpopular opinion, but people who advocate absolute freedom of expression on X, for example, have probably never experienced a nasty slander there. Some know how to defend themselves against it, but others are intimidated, leave the platform and are thus restricted from expressing even their free opinion there. Anyone who feels offended by restrictions should bear in mind that they also offer protection on the other side. The internet is full of trolls and people with bad intentions, and people like Musk are about to give them more space to flourish. 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jaesana 3,962 Posted 12 hours ago 6 minutes ago, bluechemtrails said: Unpopular opinion, but people who advocate absolute freedom of expression on X, for example, have probably never experienced a nasty slander there. Some know how to defend themselves against it, but others are intimidated, leave the platform and are thus restricted from expressing even their free opinion there. Anyone who feels offended by restrictions should bear in mind that they also offer protection on the other side. Slander and defamation are not considered protected speech (at least under First Amendment standards) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NikoGo 62,429 Posted 12 hours ago 3 hours ago, fl0r1dakil0s said: well i actually do like u a lot bae but one of the warnings u gave me was fucking absurd you warned and put me on mod queue (for 3 whole weeks) for posting a fucking meme lol (this one) .. it's laughable imo.. images are very much valid responses and i'll die on that grave no matter how many times i'm unfairly suspended I don’t understand why you’re acting so purposefully dense. If user A is presenting their argument to user B, and user C randomly comes in and insinuates they’re on crack while offering no counter argument, that is breaking the first rule of the guidelines (Posts that are purposefully inflammatory, rude, hateful, insulting, or personal attacks on any person including other members will not be tolerated). I know you know why that wasn’t allowed. Yes, images are absolutely a valid response, but dropping in the middle of a conversation, insinuating a member is on crack because they have a different view point then you, and then leaving, doesn’t contribute anything to the conversation, and just starts another loop of arguments. I think @ultrabanisters said it best though, you can absolutely have free speech, but you aren’t free from the repercussions of said free speech. Especially on a place like Lanabords. we do have rules and guidelines that were agreed to upon registering. the mod team is constantly between a rock and a hard place because we want open discussions, but 6 times out of 10 it gets out of hand, and it results in hurt feelings and out of control arguments. Users get mad when people aren’t warned for being inflammatory and then those same users get mad when people are warned for being inflammatory. I think instead of resulting to hateful attacks or generic ‘fuck off’ statements, both sides need to be more level headed, and try to understand each other because both sides make good points 5 Quote "Don’t forget me" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites