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as someone who has been diagnosed with BPD for four years, I feel comfortable saying that this disorder is something that can be overcame and it shouldn't stop you from having children. people with BPD are so loving, they can make the best parents. if you are working on yourself in therapy and making progress, having a baby is totally okay

None of us really knows what goes on inside the inner workings of her mind and of course, her personal life. She shares what she chooses to share. I'm her age, and honestly I can relate to her on a few levels. Ultimately I just hope she finds happiness, peace and stability.  Only a qualified medical professional can diagnose someone. One of my exes is actually a borderline personality and it took multiple doctors and multiple years for him to actually receive that diagnosis.  He was initially diagnosed with ptsd. I spent a few years in therapy after that relationship to sort myself out, because my ex constantly switched through the different cycles of Love bombing me and then devaluing me , casting me aside. It was the constant up and down, back and forth that was difficult to live with.   My heart goes out to anyone on here who either suffers from BPD or has a loved one suffering from it.  
 
On a lighter note, does anyone follow Rob on Instagram? He is so adorable and I love all of his cute posts with his different tropical Hawaiian shirts!  He also posts really sweet inspirational things which is always refreshing to read. I definitely recommend following him on Instagram if you're not already!  

None of us really knows what goes on inside the inner workings of her mind and of course, her personal life. She shares what she chooses to share. I'm her age, and honestly I can relate to her on a few levels. Ultimately I just hope she finds happiness, peace and stability.  Only a qualified medical professional can diagnose someone. One of my exes is actually a borderline personality and it took multiple doctors and multiple years for him to actually receive that diagnosis.  He was initially diagnosed with ptsd. I spent a few years in therapy after that relationship to sort myself out, because my ex constantly switched through the different cycles of Love bombing me and then devaluing me , casting me aside. It was the constant up and down, back and forth that was difficult to live with.   My heart goes out to anyone on here who either suffers from BPD or has a loved one suffering from it.  
 
On a lighter note, does anyone follow Rob on Instagram? He is so adorable and I love all of his cute posts with his different tropical Hawaiian shirts!  He also posts really sweet inspirational things which is always refreshing to read. I definitely recommend following him on Instagram if you're not already!  

None of us really knows what goes on inside the inner workings of her mind and of course, her personal life. She shares what she chooses to share. I'm her age, and honestly I can relate to her on a few levels. Ultimately I just hope she finds happiness, peace and stability.  Only a qualified medical professional can diagnose someone. One of my exes is actually a borderline personality and it took multiple doctors and multiple years for him to actually receive that diagnosis.  He was initially diagnosed with ptsd. I spent a few years in therapy after that relationship to sort myself out, because my ex constantly switched through the different cycles of Love bombing me and then devaluing me , casting me aside. It was the constant up and down, back and forth that was difficult to live with.   My heart goes out to anyone on here who either suffers from BPD or has a loved one suffering from it.  
 
On a lighter note, does anyone follow Rob on Instagram? He is so adorable and I love all of his cute posts with his different tropical Hawaiian shirts!  He also posts really sweet inspirational things which is always refreshing to read. I definitely recommend following him on Instagram if you're not already!  

None of us really knows what goes on inside the inner workings of her mind and of course, her personal life. She shares what she chooses to share. I'm her age, and honestly I can relate to her on a few levels. Ultimately I just hope she finds happiness, peace and stability.  Only a qualified medical professional can diagnose someone. One of my exes is actually a borderline personality and it took multiple doctors and multiple years for him to actually receive that diagnosis.  He was initially diagnosed with ptsd. I spent a few years in therapy after that relationship to sort myself out, because my ex constantly switched through the different cycles of Love bombing me and then devaluing me , casting me aside. It was the constant up and down, back and forth that was difficult to live with.   My heart goes out to anyone on here who either suffers from BPD or has a loved one suffering from it.  
 
On a lighter note, does anyone follow Rob on Instagram? He is so adorable and I love all of his cute posts with his different tropical Hawaiian shirts!  He also posts really sweet inspirational things which is always refreshing to read. I definitely recommend following him on Instagram if you're not already!  

None of us really knows what goes on inside the inner workings of her mind and of course, her personal life. She shares what she chooses to share. I'm her age, and honestly I can relate to her on a few levels. Ultimately I just hope she finds happiness, peace and stability.  Only a qualified medical professional can diagnose someone. One of my exes is actually a borderline personality and it took multiple doctors and multiple years for him to actually receive that diagnosis.  He was initially diagnosed with ptsd. I spent a few years in therapy after that relationship to sort myself out, because my ex constantly switched through the different cycles of Love bombing me and then devaluing me , casting me aside. It was the constant up and down, back and forth that was difficult to live with.   My heart goes out to anyone on here who either suffers from BPD or has a loved one suffering from it.  
 
On a lighter note, does anyone follow Rob on Instagram? He is so adorable and I love all of his cute posts with his different tropical Hawaiian shirts!  He also posts really sweet inspirational things which is always refreshing to read. I definitely recommend following him on Instagram if you're not already!  

None of us really knows what goes on inside the inner workings of her mind and of course, her personal life. She shares what she chooses to share. I'm her age, and honestly I can relate to her on a few levels. Ultimately I just hope she finds happiness, peace and stability.  Only a qualified medical professional can diagnose someone. One of my exes is actually a borderline personality and it took multiple doctors and multiple years for him to actually receive that diagnosis.  He was initially diagnosed with ptsd. I spent a few years in therapy after that relationship to sort myself out, because my ex constantly switched through the different cycles of Love bombing me and then devaluing me , casting me aside. It was the constant up and down, back and forth that was difficult to live with.   My heart goes out to anyone on here who either suffers from BPD or has a loved one suffering from it.  
 
On a lighter note, does anyone follow Rob on Instagram? He is so adorable and I love all of his cute posts with his different tropical Hawaiian shirts!  He also posts really sweet inspirational things which is always refreshing to read. I definitely recommend following him on Instagram if you're not already!  

None of us really knows what goes on inside the inner workings of her mind and of course, her personal life. She shares what she chooses to share. I'm her age, and honestly I can relate to her on a few levels. Ultimately I just hope she finds happiness, peace and stability.  Only a qualified medical professional can diagnose someone. One of my exes is actually a borderline personality and it took multiple doctors and multiple years for him to actually receive that diagnosis.  He was initially diagnosed with ptsd. I spent a few years in therapy after that relationship to sort myself out, because my ex constantly switched through the different cycles of Love bombing me and then devaluing me , casting me aside. It was the constant up and down, back and forth that was difficult to live with.   My heart goes out to anyone on here who either suffers from BPD or has a loved one suffering from it.  
 
On a lighter note, does anyone follow Rob on Instagram? He is so adorable and I love all of his cute posts with his different tropical Hawaiian shirts!  He also posts really sweet inspirational things which is always refreshing to read. I definitely recommend following him on Instagram if you're not already!  

None of us really knows what goes on inside the inner workings of her mind and of course, her personal life. She shares what she chooses to share. I'm her age, and honestly I can relate to her on a few levels. Ultimately I just hope she finds happiness, peace and stability.  Only a qualified medical professional can diagnose someone. One of my exes is actually a borderline personality and it took multiple doctors and multiple years for him to actually receive that diagnosis.  He was initially diagnosed with ptsd. I spent a few years in therapy after that relationship to sort myself out, because my ex constantly switched through the different cycles of Love bombing me and then devaluing me , casting me aside. It was the constant up and down, back and forth that was difficult to live with.   My heart goes out to anyone on here who either suffers from BPD or has a loved one suffering from it.  
 
On a lighter note, does anyone follow Rob on Instagram? He is so adorable and I love all of his cute posts with his different tropical Hawaiian shirts!  He also posts really sweet inspirational things which is always refreshing to read. I definitely recommend following him on Instagram if you're not already!  

To be fair, I personally believe it's best if people think very carefully about having kids if they do have mental disorders (I myself have plenty and choose not to have children for that reason), BUT we really don't know Lana, so it's unfair to say that she shouldn't have kids. I know Lana has some bumps, but overall I do feel like she's a well put together woman. She has a successful career, friends, a house, a family etc. She's self sufficient and loving. Can we not make such harsh judgements about her without actually knowing her as a person? We as fans only get a peek of what she's truly like and what she desires in life, and it seems foolish to pin a disorder on her

None of us really knows what goes on inside the inner workings of her mind and of course, her personal life. She shares what she chooses to share. I'm her age, and honestly I can relate to her on a few levels. Ultimately I just hope she finds happiness, peace and stability.  Only a qualified medical professional can diagnose someone. One of my exes is actually a borderline personality and it took multiple doctors and multiple years for him to actually receive that diagnosis.  He was initially diagnosed with ptsd. I spent a few years in therapy after that relationship to sort myself out, because my ex constantly switched through the different cycles of Love bombing me and then devaluing me , casting me aside. It was the constant up and down, back and forth that was difficult to live with.   My heart goes out to anyone on here who either suffers from BPD or has a loved one suffering from it.  
 
On a lighter note, does anyone follow Rob on Instagram? He is so adorable and I love all of his cute posts with his different tropical Hawaiian shirts!  He also posts really sweet inspirational things which is always refreshing to read. I definitely recommend following him on Instagram if you're not already!  

None of us really knows what goes on inside the inner workings of her mind and of course, her personal life. She shares what she chooses to share. I'm her age, and honestly I can relate to her on a few levels. Ultimately I just hope she finds happiness, peace and stability.  Only a qualified medical professional can diagnose someone. One of my exes is actually a borderline personality and it took multiple doctors and multiple years for him to actually receive that diagnosis.  He was initially diagnosed with ptsd. I spent a few years in therapy after that relationship to sort myself out, because my ex constantly switched through the different cycles of Love bombing me and then devaluing me , casting me aside. It was the constant up and down, back and forth that was difficult to live with.   My heart goes out to anyone on here who either suffers from BPD or has a loved one suffering from it.  
 
On a lighter note, does anyone follow Rob on Instagram? He is so adorable and I love all of his cute posts with his different tropical Hawaiian shirts!  He also posts really sweet inspirational things which is always refreshing to read. I definitely recommend following him on Instagram if you're not already!