yyxy 1,284 Posted July 19 if people want to cancel a problematic person then they should cancel THAT problematic person. why do people want to criticize who’s she’s friends with, are they even friends with charli in the first place personally? i really doubt they actually interact with each other most of the time so i don’t really care. this parasocialism has gone way too extreme in the recent years. mean girls could literally be a song about a woman who’s in her mid-20s, real “intelligent” and i think it’s a sarcastic take of what a mean girl is instead of a shoutout to dasha or whoever the fuck she is. i don’t know who she is until now and that’s just proves that whatever she’s doing doesn't really make an impact. 5 Quote ☆SeaKeen★ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DeadSeaOfMercury 21,261 Posted July 19 4 hours ago, Lipgloss Twink said: Mean Girls is great, one of my faves and to me it sounds like uplifting women who get labeled problematic, mean and bitchy but in actuality aren't. Something you can't say about Dasha Ok, I’m at work so I don’t have time to look shit up atm. I don’t know who Dasha is, Is she just a Bitch? Like mean girls? That’s fine. Cancel Culture is something that needs to be eradicated… 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
champainproblms 1,427 Posted July 19 13 minutes ago, DeadSeaOfMercury said: Ok, I’m at work so I don’t have time to look shit up atm. I don’t know who Dasha is, Is she just a Bitch? Like mean girls? That’s fine. Cancel Culture is something that needs to be eradicated… nah she just posted a pic using a caricature (made by her) of a palestinian woman as a target for practicing her aim with a gun 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chorli Xbox 8,455 Posted July 19 22 minutes ago, DeadSeaOfMercury said: Ok, I’m at work so I don’t have time to look shit up atm. I don’t know who Dasha is, Is she just a Bitch? Like mean girls? That’s fine. Cancel Culture is something that needs to be eradicated… she’s a far right trump supporter with a podcast and is very vocal about her views (somewhat like Candace Owen’s, Ben Shapiro etc) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DeadSeaOfMercury 21,261 Posted July 19 1 hour ago, champainproblms said: nah she just posted a pic using a caricature (made by her) of a palestinian woman as a target for practicing her aim with a gun That’s Fucked. 1 hour ago, Chorli Xbox said: she’s a far right trump supporter with a podcast and is very vocal about her views (somewhat like Candace Owen’s, Ben Shapiro etc) I severely dislike Candace, Don’t know much about Shapiro 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lipgloss Twink 415 Posted July 19 2 hours ago, shadesofblue said: (I’m not coming for you specifically more the internet in general)- but there’s a big difference between pedos/serial killers committing heinous crimes for years vs a pop star’s friend posting weird and offensive content I'm not cancelling her, I'm posting my opinion on a forum. I feel like she could have handled this way better, don't namedrop her because sooner or later she does something like this and now there's pie on your face. I agree they are not the same but at the very least she is straddling a very blurry line. Still the comparisson to Trump, Marjorie Taylor Greene or whomever still stands. You've just given a platform to her and her hatred. I'm ot calling Charli a biggot, I'm calling her an idiot. As I said, say it's about dead eyed models like Gabriette and move on. It would be less bad if she was just friends, or the girl was incredibly racist, homophobic or sexist behind closed doors. But shouting out a volatile right wing extremist who doesn't know how to turn Twitter off, is a dumb move, clear for all to see. She dug her own grave, let her lie in it. We'll forget it in 2 weeks anyway... 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadesofblue 12,097 Posted July 19 3 minutes ago, Lipgloss Twink said: I'm not cancelling her, I'm posting my opinion on a forum. I feel like she could have handled this way better, don't namedrop her because sooner or later she does something like this and now there's pie on your face. I agree they are not the same but at the very least she is straddling a very blurry line. Still the comparisson to Trump, Marjorie Taylor Greene or whomever still stands. You've just given a platform to her and her hatred. I'm ot calling Charli a biggot, I'm calling her an idiot. As I said, say it's about dead eyed models like Gabriette and move on. It would be less bad if she was just friends, or the girl was incredibly racist, homophobic or sexist behind closed doors. But shouting out a volatile right wing extremist who doesn't know how to turn Twitter off, is a dumb move, clear for all to see. She dug her own grave, let her lie in it. We'll forget it in 2 weeks anyway... That’s fair, I know you’re not trying to cancel her. I don’t condone her friend whatsoever & I do agree it’s not a very smart choice for charli associating herself with someone like that. People aka twitter places a lot of blame on people that shouldn’t be getting all the heat 2 Quote ♡︎ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MrE 238 Posted July 19 Tbh none of know the extent of the relationship between Charli and Dashanalamadingdong. We know Charli did like, what, a feature on a podcast or something? And it's my understanding that Dashanalamadingdong said herself that "this song is about me" with literally no evidence to support it. I know there's pictures of me with people I hate. Being around/loosely associated with people for career or contractual obligations doesn't mean you support that person or their beliefs. At all. This whole controversy is as tired as I am. 3 Quote Last.fm Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
comeintomybedroom 8,624 Posted July 19 2 hours ago, Chorli Xbox said: she’s a far right trump supporter with a podcast and is very vocal about her views (somewhat like Candace Owen’s, Ben Shapiro etc) I'm not defending her at all because i don't like her but she's literally the opposite of far right anyway mean girls is the weakest song on the album so whether it is inspired by that dasha character or not doesn't change that 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
taco truck 31,257 Posted July 19 Backseat is so good 2 Quote ❀❀ ˖° ⋆.ೃ࿔ this is my idea of fun °⋆.ೃ࿔*:・ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rollwithme 5,359 Posted July 19 26 minutes ago, comeintomybedroom said: anyway mean girls is the weakest song on the album so whether it is inspired by that dasha character or not doesn't change that 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chorli Xbox 8,455 Posted July 19 22 hours ago, comeintomybedroom said: I'm not defending her at all because i don't like her but she's literally the opposite of far right anyway mean girls is the weakest song on the album so whether it is inspired by that dasha character or not doesn't change that does mocking black people, mocking trans people, joking about rape victims, yapping hours about how much you love trump, being pro life and shooting at a body wearing keffiyeh not sound far right to you? lol edit: aside from the political spectrum, while i don’t think Charli should be “cancelled”, i do think the criticism and raised eyebrows are valid when you invite Dasha to your own podcast, write a song about her and associate yourself with her. that on top with her being friends with Matty Healy (who has also done/said some weird shit and was very obviously the cause of her feud with Rina) just builds up. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AtomicMess 3,339 Posted July 19 1 hour ago, MrE said: Tbh none of know the extent of the relationship between Charli and Dashanalamadingdong. We know Charli did like, what, a feature on a podcast or something? And it's my understanding that Dashanalamadingdong said herself that "this song is about me" with literally no evidence to support it. I know there's pictures of me with people I hate. Being around/loosely associated with people for career or contractual obligations doesn't mean you support that person or their beliefs. At all. This whole controversy is as tired as I am. 1 hour ago, shadesofblue said: That’s fair, I know you’re not trying to cancel her. I don’t condone her friend whatsoever & I do agree it’s not a very smart choice for charli associating herself with someone like that. People aka twitter places a lot of blame on people that shouldn’t be getting all the heat F'real on all this. 'Cancel Culture' is really just applied peer pressure. "Oh, this person is bad? Let's go through every single person in their orbit and make them guilty by association, too! If we can't do anything about this person or make them change on a dime immediately, let's hit every possible target around them instead! They'll either end up isolated and ousted because nobody will want to be around them (but is it because people around them genuinely don't want to be associated or support something bad? Or is it that they just don't want to have their socials flooded with annoying noise from someone else?), or we'll get them to change because of peer pressure! (but did they really change? Or did they just decide to hide their behavior and take the shit to private channels of communication instead?)" That being said though.... (here's where I waffle a bit) 15 minutes ago, Chorli Xbox said: i do think the criticism and raised eyebrows are valid when you invite Dasha to your own podcast, write a song about her and associate yourself with her. that on top with her being friends with Matty Healy (who has also done/said some weird shit and was very obviously the cause of her feud with Rina) just builds up. This. Dame Charlotte Xboxington haaaaassss had some shady, shiesty, objectively morally-not-that-great people in her orbit from time to time. At some point a line does need to be drawn. I'm very much one of those "art from the artist" separators myself....to a point. 6 Quote 🎶 Art decorates space, but music decorates time 🎶 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
charli bby 5,213 Posted July 20 Anyways, when is the Apple music video coming out 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chorli Xbox 8,455 Posted July 20 3 hours ago, charli bby said: Anyways, when is the Apple music video coming out i was like “why is she releasing an Apple Music video” but you meant Apple (music video) im so slow 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Make me your Dream Life 85,773 Posted July 20 you know, when I begin to feel lazy, and not like, in a lounge in a robe kinda way, I think of the time i saw her performing constant repeat live and it still rejuvenates me to this day. it's like a jolt that makes me get up and jolt 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fetiche 1,223 Posted July 20 I thought it was a wild Brat girl summer … the absolute hall monitor, bullying, pathetic vibes coming from the fans trying to cancel her for something so benign is disgusting. Very unbratty vibes, insufferable vibes 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MrE 238 Posted July 20 6 hours ago, charli bby said: Anyways, when is the Apple music video coming out Has this been announced? Or are we hedging bets based in its success/Apple Dance? Would like some more music videos considering Crash had like 5. 0 Quote Last.fm Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fetiche 1,223 Posted July 20 It was only a matter of time before the neurotic gays that compose her fan base turn on her. The subreddit is absolutely pathetic 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites