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  1. I think people confuse championing girl power with feminism. 

     

    This is a good point. At its worst, "girl power" can take the form of misandry (something feminism in general sometimes is charged with unfairly). But at its best, "girl power" can be a shorthand/introduction to encouraging females to stand up for themselves, and importantly, for each other. When that is the focus, i.e. challenging arbitrarily restrictive norms, I can see a certain kind of shallow consistency in indulging "girls behaving 'badly'" while ignoring "boys behaving 'badly,'" if that makes sense.

     

    I've been meaning to ask everyone here what you thought of certain aspects of the Breaking Up video. Overall I love it, but a couple of parts bothered me a little: girl posse vs. boy posse, and the one time she "slaps" the Ex (after gagging, binding and dragging him). I'm more bothered by the message others could make of it, than by concern for Charli's intent. I initially interpreted it as "This guy is a jerk, and this guy's friends are also jerks, and Charli and her friends are sick of it." No biggie... unless. Did it make anyone else feel uncomfortable on second thought, like maybe it can be seen as girl power attacking guys in general?


  2. This week I finally managed to get digital copies of my favorite K-Tel compilation, Rock 80! I used to listen to this on cassette over and over...

     

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    It's a blast from the past of my childhood. The other 12 people on the internet who remember it, remember it fondly.

     

    A few of these specific track versions were hard to find or never made available on CD or mp3 :crossed: Bless the old-timers on YouTube who rip their vinyls :woot:

     

    Rock 80

     1. Cars - Gary Numan

     2. Brass in Pocket - The Pretenders

     3. Driver's Seat - Sniff 'n' the Tears

     4. Cruel to Be Kind - Nick Lowe

     5. Is She Really Going Out with Him? - Joe Jackson

     6. Heartbreaker - Pat Benatar

     7. Call Me - Blondie

     8. Do You Remember Rock and Roll Radio - The Ramones

     9. My Sharona - The Knack

    10. I Want You to Want Me (live) - Cheap Trick

    11. Hold On - Ian Gomm

    12. One Way Or Another - Blondie

    13. We Live for Love (original LP mix) - Pat Benatar

    14. Pop Muzik - M

     

    #punkrawkpop #prepussypowerpussypower :bop:


  3. “I live in East L.A., and I speak Spanish,” she says. “The girls who work in the club in the video are my friends, people I knew before I became a little more well known. Like, I’ve always spoken Spanish in all my songs the past few years. So for me, personally, it’s not a far-out-there reference.” 

     

    I mean, how dare she? I thought I was listening to Born to Die in English, and then she just goes and totally fucks with my mind like this? I had to go back and check all her songs and make sure they weren't in Spanish for realz. Is she like some kind of a pathological liar?

     

    No. No, she is not. It's called a brain fart. We all do it. Some of the less verbally eloquent among us do it more often then others. We mean to say one thing, and our brain goes and retrieves a different but related word or phrase. Those of us who are more careful/pedantic consider whether we have said something misleading and whether we need to correct ourselves, but not everyone does. Apparently she has featured Spanish (or French :/ ) lyrics in a song here and there on all two of her albums the past few years. But on the spot, it didn't come out that specific. That, to someone who can relate, is the simplest explanation.

     

    While the age thing may be an example of more deliberate falsehood (and as someone with less knowledge of Southern CA geography than Lana, I have no idea what to make of the East L.A. comment), to make exaggerated statements along the lines of "she lies all the time" strikes me as more than a bit hypocritical, especially when it crops up in a magazine article's liberally embellished styling. "...saying that some of your best friends are Latino..." ...Really? :facepalm:


  4. you're implying that "normalizing an turning it into entertainment" will completely remove the severity of what domestic violence truly is!!

    sensible people (which is the majority of people) aren't going to forget about the trauma it does, or dismiss cases of domestic violence just because they hear/see it being appropriated by external outlets!!

     

    Sensible people often look the other way. This is part of the problem.

     

    I think both Eminem and Lana Del Rey's subject matter warrants scrutiny, but both deserve fair consideration of what they are trying to say before dismissing them as "glorifying violence." But it is possible for one to handle their subject matter well while the other doesn't.

     

    The more I think about "Shady Cxvpher," the more I get the vibe that Eminem uses sexist/homophobic slurs that are motivated by class struggle, not gender/orientation issues. (For example, it's not so much that Eminem is pissed at any woman who won't sleep with him, as much as he's pissed at any woman who thinks she's too good to sleep with him.) That doesn't make it okay, of course. But it does explain why some fans see him as "not misogynistic." Of course, deliberate use of such slurs makes it more serious than a matter of simple "insensitivity."


  5.  

    I don't think Eminem's reference to LDR is a joke or there is very little in the way of humor in this rap. There may be a lot of wit and art to it, but the emotionality is all wrong for humor. Rob Grant may have nailed it by referring to the rap as an anger managment issue (or an exorcism of sorts).
     
    BTW I got lyrics from youtube user: Muhammed Atas (a true hero of the Internet, imo), who left it as a comment, which will probably be buried very soon. 
     
    lyrics : 
    I just turned Slaughterhouse to a quintet
    Began to trend-set, murdered the friend's pet
    Made shit as ill as it can get went in depth
    Like a fucking vignette and two bars skins wet
    I'm already covered in sweat
    And I wasn't even ready to come in yet
    AHH, let me set this drink down
    Beat up a gal, start beef with her pal
    Probably be wild 'til I'm wrinkled and senile
    And "Rap God" was a freestyle
    Off the top of the dome piece while I was sleep on the couch
    And I'm freestyling now
    I need a towel, sweat leaks from my brow
    It's burning my eyes, my cerebral is foul
    Cause shit I'm thinking about should be illegal
    I need my head banned like the guy who left Cleveland Ohio
    And went to South Beach with his talents
    Scream "fuck you" on the way out and wink with a smile
    This whole game can eat a dick, I'm going back deep underground
    But right now I'm back on that bullshit and you I'm singling out
    Cause you're so fucking outdated you should mingle a while
    What the fuck is this clusterfuck of busters
    Bunch of Buster Douglas', motherfuckers is one hit wonders
    One swing and you're crowned
    Knocked one out the park, one catchy jingle and now
    You think you fucking with me cause you sold like 300 thou
    Bitch, I can jump without my feet ever leaving the ground
    Reach up, swing from a cloud with 3 thousand people around
    Evil and vile enough to leap in the crowd
    And heave a child in a sink hole on Cinco De Mayo
    When I'm sprinkled in pico de gallo
    Mardi Gras beads in a towel
    I just made that up
    I don't know much Spanish, I'm not bilingual
    But I'll show you a Mexican stand off
    Between just these two amigos
    Cause neither really wants to say what we're thinking out loud
    But I sure as fuck think I know how rebody English, no doubt
    Cause we're trying to kill each other, but lyrically
    The fuck is humility? What is a real emcee?
    Royce, he came up in the shit with me
    Never spit that hustler shit, it wasn't a fit for me
    Let them adjust 'til they just get the gist of me
    Just not giving a fuck and plus with the history
    Of muscular distrophy, it wasn't a mystery
    Why this middle finger was stuck in this upward positioning
    So what in the fuck is a list to me?
    I'm used to not being on it, I expect it out 'em
    Heck wit' em, I get my respect without 'em
    Ain't really been into diamonds since I put my first record out
    But I could put a chain around my second album
    And wear it as a neck medallion
    Became a millionaire, went downhill from there
    Became civil, office swivel chair, sterling silverware
    Screaming life is still unfair til I get a real career
    The fuck am I gonna do until then? This job is too fulfilling
    Two gazillion pairs of super villain shoes to fill in
    And a mood to kill till I plow my Coupe de Ville
    To some children at the food pavilion at Build-A-Bear
    Warrior's mind, I’m pro-hydrocodone euphoria
    In the drug emporium line, I'm soaring
    I'm pouring Vicodin four at the time ignoring the warning signs on 'em fore I go four wheeler driving
    Gory and violent and horrifying
    You surely won't find no one more appalling
    Than I am with this retaliatorial rhyming for Gloria Steinem
    But I finger her like a witness, show me a line-up
    I usually am abusive, but excuse me, ma'am
    I guess I must've threw you for a loop like toucan Sam
    When I said I could use the sample cause you'se a tramp
    But look how you react to this trigger like
    When I call you a bigger dyke than the Hoover Dam
    You playing right in Lex Luthor's hands
    It's such a ruthless plan, might even lose a fan
    But fuck it, Superman wouldn't change in a phone booth for Stan
    I'm a brand new being like Grand Puba's band
    Happy as Anderson Cooper having a tuba crammed
    In his pooper with lubricant...wait, that's too... I can't
    Since honesty is the best policy I'll give you the old college try
    Try to acknowledge my mistakes, probably won't qualify
    As a gentleman and a scholar, but it's time that I swallow pride
    And say that I'm sorry, sorry that I can't apologize
    I think of all them times I compromised my bottom lines
    And thought of rhymes that sodomized your daughter's minds
    Then I'm like dollar signs
    But I may fight for gay rights especially if they dyke
    It's more of a knockout than Janay Rice
    Play nice, bitch, I punch Lana Del Rey right
    In the face twice like Ray Rice in broad daylight
    In plain sight of the elevator surveillance
    Til her head is banged on the railing
    Then celebrate with the Ravens
    Never date an assailant that self-medicates with inhalants
    I meditate, but I may need a better way to escape
    The aggression, rage and the anger
    Cause them restraints on the ankles
    Heavyweights and an anchor with handcuffs in chains
    This ain't enough to contain it
    But I still get the same respect as Jay if I came on
    Stage in a fucking negligee everyday and Liz Claiborne
    Devastated from breakup with Kate Hudson
    Wait slut, your friends, what are they gonna say
    Cause makeup ain't gonna cover
    That eye that's seven-eighths of the way shut
    Peppersprayed with your face cut
    Made my bank like a lay up
    Off these effing skanks on the way up
    Oh, bitch thinks she's heaven sent
    It's evident that she ain't never been with seven inches
    Yes, I said seven, I measured it
    Seven inches from the floor
    While I'm standing on the fourth floor balcony
    At the Sheridan when I'm stretching it
    Bitch, I'm a pimp so a limp dick is all you'll ever get
    So if she's hesitant to get the hint
    I'll bet you that I get the message sent who she's messing with
    Hella quick when I tell a chick not to never use sex as a weapon
    When I step in and beat the wretched wench with a crescent wrench
    Existential detriments to a lesbian devil
    In the unpleasant stench of an estrogen level
    That separatists like a Chechnian rebel
    Impressionist with a pencil
    A pessimist, with his lips pressed against
    The edge of this Red Bull
    Pedal to the metal I'm rippin' this shit cause right away I'll give it to a bitch like a pedestrian, deadly as ever
    You see what kind of effects she has on the opposite sex when I push her flexible little sexy ass through a plate of plexiglass
    SHADYXV as perplexing as
    The last fifteen years and I'm predicting my next relapse
    When I spit these lyrics so don't look at me weird
    When I start shifting gears and shit re-smears all over Britney Spears
    And these little Disney queers
    Who use chicks for beards?
    Just made that up too...
    Oh and the Shady 2.0
    We wrote it in roman numerals like they do for the Super Bowls
    Cause it's supposed to confuse you hoes
    The flows lose you as usual, so juvenile
    2 year old when I go to the studio
    It's only music but don't be foolish though
    You don't know me through it ho but you can blow me to it though
    In my homie's Buick
    Been known to lose it though so if I overdo it you drove me to it
    When I step in the vocal booth like I'm supposed to do
    And I murder you on a fuckin' track like Tony Stewart
    In one take, if I fuck up I don't redo it
    You couldn't sound grown on a beat if you were moaning to it
    The day I don't say fuck you all, you can throw me through it
    Rootinest-tootinest, shootin' this from the hip
    With the sentiments, Eminem isn't penning them for the women
    I'm an enemy to them and the epitome of an inconsiderate idiot
    But they consider me equivalent to chlamydia
    They tryna get rid of me gadzooks
    But I stiggity stand for the fliggity flag
    Of the United States and the freedom, I distribute these raps through
    And if I catch you doing anything
    Hindering or prohibiting that after I give me that
    Tattoo of your lips on my ass I'mma be literally
    Pickin' up and deliberately whippin' the Statue of Liberty at you WOOOOH!
     
    Fuck it
     
    Got it somewhere in there probably

     

     

    Oh, Eminem.  :xcry:  You have been hurt. For far too long you have carried the burden of a pseudowarrior mentality in a post-warrior society, along with the accompanying dickhurt.  :pussypower:

     

    But yeah, he's not joking. He may still be "punching up," though. I think in a weird way he's commiserating with Janay Rice, saying she didn't get justice because she's not one of the "Beautiful People" that our culture cares about. While implicating himself as one of the "Rich People" feeding upon the beauty of others, and he does Ray Rice one "better" by targeting one of the Beautiful People he could catch hell for harming. Thus flaming us all for our entitlement issues, while mocking his own?

     

    I don't know, I haven't followed Eminem and his themes. Am I close?


  6. It seems to me that we are trying to discuss this "kerfuffle" using different ideas about how communication is supposed to work. Is the responsibility completely on the speaker (Eminem) to say exactly what he means? Or is it completely dependent on the receiver (fans, casual listeners, participants in the culture at large) to decode the message and declare what it means? Or is it a shared responsibility to put forth effort and care into the encoding and decoding processes?
     

    And your are overreacting about this thing. 

     

    Maybe. According to the Auteur model, whatever Eminem meant to say is controlling. (And we must deal -- that is, successfully interpret the meaning, or Be Wrong.) But under the Death of the Author model, all that matters is what the audience heard. (We may hear different messages, and thus react differently, but any reaction is on some level "correct.") On the other hand, according to a Cooperative model, what Eminem meant is important, but what we take from the song is also important. In that case, there are *two* questions to consider: did Eminem "speak" well enough to be heard, and did we listen well enough to hear him? (Under the cooperative model, we may be overreacting if we misunderstood because we didn't do our part ...or our reaction may be legitimate, if Eminem didn't do his.)

     

    K, Eminem's best tracks were "Kim" and "Bonnie & Clyde" because they totally shocked you. And these songs were tight, they were brilliantly written and performed. I don't care about the topic of the songs. Art is free and when you wanna tell a tale, you better do it the right way and he did.

     

    I don't support the idea that artists should be just all about fluff and self-empowerment, playing a role model. Lana herself also never justifies for the behaviour of the characters in her songs. 

     

    One of Eminem's problems is that he is recording basically the same material since the 1990's. And it's gotten so boring, so quickly.

     

    This, to me, is the question: did Eminem tell his tale the right way? I take it that for you, it depends on whether he is still successfully shocking us. I agree that the *character* in a song does not always need to be presented as a role model. Sometimes a message is simply, "Life is like this." But is that all there is to Eminem's message in "Shady Cxvpher"? Or is it more accurate to say the message is "Life is like this for men, so women should accept it and men should carry on"? Or is it more like, "Life is like this for men and women, so we need to break this pattern"? I'm not a fan or even a casual listener of Eminem, so I don't feel like I can say for sure. But it strikes me as somewhat naive to assume that just because an artist has successfully painted a picture without beating you over the head with it (so to speak), therefore there is no deeper meaning.

     

    IMO, in art it matters not only how you say it, but what you're saying.

     

    My problem with Eminem is that there is no subtext. You can create one if you want, and a lot of people do, but at some point, Poe's Law comes into play - if your act as a troll is so convincing and all encompassing, then at some point, you're just an asshole.

     

    Or inept at getting your message across. Which is quite possible. But in order to say whether he has created a subtext, we need to look at the context.

     

    Honestly thought out of... 'he hit me and it felt like a kiss.' When I saw this. Oh Bless Lana. 

     

    Me too.

     

    I think Mr. Marshall Bruce Mathers III is not only playing off his deserved reputation for misogynistic lyrics about violence against women, but also the fact that Lana's lyrics and interviews make it sound as if she's into it. Em's trolling y'all.

     

    I agree -- he picked Lana for a reason, and this is part of the context he's speaking into. And he's doing it provocatively -- but does this mean he's trolling, in the sense of wanting a negative reaction and nothing else?

     

    Eminem several lines earlier in 'Shady Cxvpher' said

    But look how you react to this trigger like
    When I call you a bigger dyke than the Hoover Dam
    You playing right in Lex Luthor's hands
    It's such a ruthless plan, might even lose a fan
    But fuck it, Superman wouldn't change in a phone booth for Stan

     

     

    More crucial context. I wish I could find the lyrics in full (but darn Google is more into the controversy itself ATM)

     

    Don't know Eminem's work. However, saying "like Ray Rice", a person universally condemned in the media right now (thanks @@Viva for first pointing that out) doesn't simply imply pro-mysogny. Still there is a lot of anger (and abusive imagery) in his rap. I think it's one of those what-should-the-limits-of-art be conumdrums and I'm sure he doesn't bear LDR any ill will (I mean why should he?). She was just the person that worked the best in the lyric.

     
    He could deflect things quite a bit by just tweeting the song has its own agenda and people should not conclude he would do in real life what he raps about. 

     

    I think you are pointing out another very important piece of the context he's given us. Yes, he could make it even easier on us by explaining himself, however briefly -- but is he obligated to? I'm thinking for most subjects tackled by most artists, the answer would be "no" ...but are there special circumstances in this case?

     

    There are a lot of people out there who here such things daily and it becomes normal to say such things.

    so yes I think we are allowed to be angry about this. Because it doesn't matter if it is just a joke or not directed to her album or whatever. violence against women is real enough. and if people especially the onces who have such an influence on a lot of people, keep making this normal to say such things it just keeps creating a place where it is normal to look down on woman.

     

    I think you are right about violence against women being a real problem. Additionally, who are his fans, and who are his casual listeners? I think we need to include both in his target audience. Perhaps his fans will understand where he's coming from, but will his casual listeners? And for someone of Eminem's stature, we also need to consider the general public -- participants in the culture at large, including us, who are receiving the message now.

     

     

    i honestly don't understand how this promotes domestic violence against women.

    it's not like someone's going to hear this shitty rap verse and be like, "OH. HE RAPPED ABOUT HITTING WOMEN, THEREFORE I MUST TOO."

     

    True. (Unless they are extremely young and/or impressionable. Such people do exist. But do we want to tailor all of our media expressions to them? I'm thinking NOT.) Personally I am more concerned about people who are already prone to violent acts hearing this song and becoming either emboldened, or at least feeling vindicated/legitimized to continue the cycle.

     

    What will be the message when people repeat the lyrics of "Shady Cxvpher" to friends, to family, to romantic partners? The neutral message ("This is life")? Every time?

     

    And I share evilentity's and longtimeman's interest in the reactions of Lana and Janay. But I believe this song has the capacity to impact the culture at large as well. I think this is a valuable conversation to be having.

     


  7. Going out on an unpopular limb, I wish LDR would be even *more* influenced by Taylor Swift. She should release the AKA album on Spotify, and she should cull her leaks/unreleased catalog and release a killer country/folk album.

     

    I know this is the unpopular opinions thread and I respect people having their own voice and stuff but this was kinda blasphemous. Leave the forum please.

     

     

    jk but don't compare Lana to that bitch pls :willcut:

     

     

    Basically her marketing team should take a page from Taylor's team's playbook  :smile:


  8. The Rules:

    • Only Lanaboards members can vote (signing up is easy!)
    • You may vote +up 20 tracks and you cannot vote down any songs.
    • Only votes via PM will be counted, please do not post your votes in this thread. But feel free to discuss.
    • Please do not vote for remixes; they will not be counted (not even Summertime Sadness CG Remix).
    • Live performances of one off songs are okay to vote for.
    • Points for demos and final versions of songs will be grouped together (but no double voting).

     

    To clarify, we could vote for songs that recycle some lyrics but are musically and otherwise distinctive (i.e., "Every Man Gets His Wish" and "Hawaiian Tropic" and "Daytona Meth"), and that won't violate #6, right?


  9. SEXIEST SONG: You Can Be the Boss, For K Part 2, Burning Desire

     

    SADDEST SONG: Flipside, Butterflies Part 2, Pawn Shop Blues

     

    MOST ROMANTIC SONG: Video Games, Yayo, On Our Way

     

    MOST UNDERRATED SONG: Rehab (For K Part 2 demo), Try Tonight, Million Dollar Man

     

    MOST LIVELY SONG: Off to the Races, Driving in Cars, Puppy Love

     

    BEST MAY JAILER-ERA SONG: A Star for Nick, Try Tonight, Move (Find My Own Way)

     

    BEST AKA LIZZY GRANT SONG: Yayo, For K Part 2, Gramma

     

    BEST LYRICS: Every Man Gets His Wish, Pawn Shop Blues, Off to the Races

     

    BEST PRODUCTION: Kill Kill, Gramma, Yayo (2010)

     

    SONG BEST PERFORMED LIVE: Pinup Galore, Yayo, Radio

     

    BEST COVER (SONG/PERFORMANCE): Goodbye Kiss, End of the World, Chelsea Hotel No.2

     

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    WORST SONG: I Was in a Bad Way, Scarface, Hit It & Run (2:57 version)

     

    MOST OVERRATED SONG: Gods & Monsters, Money Power Glory, The Other Woman

     

    MOST POLARIZING SONG (SONG YOU LOVE THAT EVERYONE ELSE HATES): CU L8R Alligator, Flipside, Million Dollar Man

     

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    BEST LANA MOMENT 2014: Shades of Cool video


  10. This Le Bon guy 

     

    :flutter: You guys have no idea how excited I am about this Kingdom duet.

     

    Check out Arcadia's "So Red the Rose" (side project of LeBon and Rhodes from way back) if you never have :bliss:


  11. Okay, this is a great collection of songs. I think with the first tracklist you have flow *IF* you switch places for "Hundred Dollar Bill" and "Us Against the World" (assuming the 3:13 version of HDB... I just associate the 4:01 version so much with AKA.)

     

     

    @@PrettyBaby thanks for the input! I cut the BtD album down a little so it would be more concise and cohesive. Now its:

    1. Hundred Dollar Bill (I like both versions here, tbh)
    2. Dum Dum
    3. You Can Be the Boss
    4. Driving In Cars With Boys
    5. Kinda Outta Luck
    6. Put the Radio On
    7. Velvet Crowbar
    8. Hollywood's Dead
    9. Damn You
    10. Us Against the World
    11. Serial Killer
    12. You and Me

     

    I think you've achieved sonic flow with this tracklist. Thematically, I can't help but feel UATW should be moved to early on. I also think Live or Die should have a place somewhere. (Other possibilities are Queen of Disaster, TV in Black & White, and Prom Song (Gone Wrong).)

     

    I'm keeping this collection  :) but this will be my tracklist:

     

    1. Dum Dum

    2. Us Against the World

    3. Put the Radio On

    4. Last Girl on Earth

    5. You Can Be the Boss

    6. Driving In Cars With Boys

    7. Live or Die

    8. Hundred Dollar Bill (3:13 demo)

    9. Kinda Outta Luck

    10. Hollywood's Dead

    11. Damn You

    12. Serial Killer

    13. You and Me


  12. Well at least there is a controversy in people's mind about UV (one I don't understand, but I see the argument, abandonment == lack of promotion). However, AKA doesn't have a controversy and remains an enigma (one I don't understand). I'm wondering if she wouldn't have had as much "authenticity" woes, if she would have just left that on iTunes and gone ahead with BTD.

     

    I wonder that too... I guess there would have been even more people comparing BTD unfavorably to AKA though. (Not that it was a "sophomore slump" by any means.)

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