Lana Del Rey's wedding as she marries Jeremy Dufrene in Des Allemands, LA - September 26th, 2024

[mssainttropez 14,759]

3 minutes ago, Dark Angel said:

 

i feel like there's a fine-line between making observations, and making assumptions, and i don't necessarily think it's wrong to have concerns, since, although she's known him since 2019, it appears that they've only been dating for the past few months (although we don't exactly know with certainty how long they've been dating) and most people would argue that getting married to someone you've just recently started dating isn't ideal and could have very negative consequences, especially considering his views, how do you really know what someone's like if you haven't speak at least several years being together? and to think she could start living with him? and having children with him? getting married isn't just some random, silly thing you do, so it would make sense as to why people feel concerned, at the end of the day, i completely respect her choices, i don't want to diminish her autonomy, but we have the right to our opinions, especially when it's something major, like her getting married so quickly (although you could also say it's none of our business, which is true, yet... she's famous and obviously people are going to have something to say about the details of her life, especially her own fans)

Additionally, lanaboards is literally a forum to discuss things like this. As long as everyone is being respectful, it’s totally normal to be having these conversations 

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4 minutes ago, Dark Angel said:

 

i feel like there's a fine-line between making observations, and making assumptions, and i don't necessarily think it's wrong to have concerns, since, although she's known him since 2019, it appears that they've only been dating for the past few months (although we don't exactly know with certainty how long they've been dating) and most people would argue that getting married to someone you've just recently started dating isn't ideal and could have very negative consequences, especially considering his views, how do you really know what someone's like if you haven't speak at least several years being together? and to think she could start living with him? and having children with him? getting married isn't just some random, silly thing you do, so it would make sense as to why people feel concerned, at the end of the day, i completely respect her choices, i don't want to diminish her autonomy, but we have the right to our opinions, especially when it's something major, like her getting married so quickly (although you could also say it's none of our business, which is true, yet... she's famous and obviously people are going to have something to say about the details of her life, especially her own fans)

also that post seems to deny that Lana puts her deepest innermost thoughts in her poetry and music and that her life-long fans can't read into it and speculate based on that. Of course we don't KNOW, i don't even think she KNOWS what she's doing half the time, but I would hate for her heart to break.

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23 minutes ago, Dark Angel said:

also i do find it extremely bothersome that he was caught liking thrist-traps on tiktok very recently  i know it sounds terrible to say, but that almost bothers me more than him supporting trump, maybe just because it's just so common for men to act like little sex-pests, and for the most part, they get excused for it  like how women are told to expect their boyfriends/husbands to watch porn, despite the fact that they already have beautiful girlfriends and wives... also the porn industry is vile  but perhaps i'm getting off-track  it just bothers me IDK

 

I agree 100000% with everything you said 

[rocknrollgroupie 4,496]

18 minutes ago, mssainttropez said:

It really makes me think of the taxi cab theory. It’s usually used for men, but it could be applied to Lana- basically it’s when someone is ready to settle down, they’ll find whoever is available at that moment and settle with them 

But she’s been touching this topic since 2017? Or even before that when she said her and Francesco weren’t on the same page. And after that she never married any of her boyfriends, not even engaged to Evan she was. And, considering what she said about the fig tree, it was interpreted as accepting if settling down and having kids was not “on her path” if u know what I mean. 
So my parasocial interpretation of this is that she is sure he’s the right one. When u know u know

[79lipstick 498]

No shade but the way some of y’all speak of Lana as if she isn’t a grown ass woman is baffling. She married a bigoted man who incites violence. Does it reflect her own bigotry? No. Does it prompt ethical and moral reflection? Yes. Does it suggest an alignment with or acceptance of those views? It can, but we don’t know her personally. Do I wish she logged in to nicely correct ppl painting her out to be every type of bigot bc she cares? Sure, but I will live if she doesn’t. I think that sums it up for me

[Brooklyn Fetus 3,524]

wait what hes a trumpie?

[mssainttropez 14,759]

1 minute ago, rocknrollgroupie said:

But she’s been touching this topic since 2017? Or even before that when she said her and Francesco weren’t on the same page. And after that she never married any of her boyfriends, not even engaged to Evan she was. And, considering what she said about the fig tree and choosing her path, it was interpreted as accepting if settling down and having kids was not “on her path” if u know what I mean. 
So my parasocial interpretation of this is that she is sure he’s the right one. When u know u know

I’m not saying this is true by any means, just speculation, but my point is that she’s been wanting to settle down and have a family for years, so she decided to marry someone/“the first guy” who also wants that. I want to reiterate that we obviously aren’t Lana, and we don’t know her or Jeremy’s intentions, and what I’m saying is just a thought. 

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On his attitude towards transgender people: hitting someone who wants to harm his daughter is one thing, but the point is that his mindset is discriminatory and very problematic, which is to think that transgender people are in some way perverted and more dangerous than other people. It just shows how stupid and misinformed some people are, especially Trump supporters.

[dexter 2,113]

Reminder that Jeremy is 56 - If they do have a child he will be 74 when they turn 18. 
 

[Vertimus 9,555]

15 minutes ago, Dark Angel said:

 

i feel like there's a fine-line between making observations, and making assumptions, and i don't necessarily think it's wrong to have concerns, since, although she's known him since 2019, it appears that they've only been dating for the past few months (although we don't exactly know with certainty how long they've been dating) and most people would argue that getting married to someone you've just recently started dating isn't ideal and could have very negative consequences, especially considering his views, how do you really know what someone's like if you haven't speak at least several years being together? and to think she could start living with him? and having children with him? getting married isn't just some random, silly thing you do, so it would make sense as to why people feel concerned, at the end of the day, i completely respect her choices, i don't want to diminish her autonomy, but we have the right to our opinions, especially when it's something major, like her getting married so quickly (although you could also say it's none of our business, which is true, yet... she's famous and obviously people are going to have something to say about the details of her life, especially her own fans)

We have to trust that she knows what she's doing. It's her private life, and, ultimately, none of our business. 

I remember when I was young and Kurt Cobain committed suicide, and then it seemed every downtowner here in NYC had an opinion on whether or not Courtney Love was abusing or mistreating Frances Bean Cobain. Everyone was an expert, everyone knew the true story, even though very few knew anything solid or factual. No one knew Love or had known Cobain. It was just overwrought conjecture and speculation. 

[79lipstick 498]

Just now, dexter said:

Reminder that Jeremy is 56 - If they do have a child he will be 74 when they turn 18. 
 

Girl don’t go there—

LOVE IS LOVE❤️

[mssainttropez 14,759]

Just now, dexter said:

Reminder that Jeremy is 56 - If they do have a child he will be 74 when they turn 18. 
 

The way the loml, Jeff Goldblum, has two kids, his oldest being 9 and Jeff is going to be 72 this month 

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does anyone have a guess on how long they've likely been together? 

all I know is

they met in 2019

& the  "you're born in march" sound check line

 

 

[Embach 42,319]

1 minute ago, mssainttropez said:

The way the loml, Jeff Goldblum, has two kids, his oldest being 9 and Jeff is going to be 72 this month 

Out of topic but I love Jeff Goldblum as well, he's like one of the top 5 coolest people ever

[dexter 2,113]

Just now, Jon Batiste Interlude said:

does anyone have a guess on how long they've likely been together? 

all I know is

they met in 2019

& the  "you're born in march" sound check line

 

 

Before Hangout Fest (may) because Jeremy went back stage to take photos with some country singers (im assuming Lana got him in)

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6 minutes ago, mssainttropez said:

I’m not saying this is true by any means, just speculation, but my point is that she’s been wanting to settle down and have a family for years, so she decided to marry someone/“the first guy” who also wants that. I want to reiterate that we obviously aren’t Lana, and we don’t know her or Jeremy’s intentions, and what I’m saying is just a thought. 

If she has a child next year, she'll already be approaching 60 when that child graduates high school. Things like this play on people's minds as they mature. She's said she wants children or a child, why wouldn't she make finding a husband and/or father a priority now?

We don't know that she's rushed into it per se, and divorce is always possible. Maybe she made him sign a pre-nup, who knows? 

[palemoonbaby 15,102]

if child theory is right why didn't she do IVF if she really wanted a kid?

[79lipstick 498]

On 9/27/2024 at 5:09 PM, mssainttropez said:

The way the loml, Jeff Goldblum, has two kids, his oldest being 9 and Jeff is going to be 72 this month 

[Embach 42,319]

1 minute ago, palemoonbaby said:

if child theory is right why didn't she do IVF if she really wanted a kid?

Maybe she wants a huge family where the father is present in the kid's life and also in her life as the partner

[palemoonbaby 15,102]

Just now, Embach said:

Maybe she wants a huge family where the father is present in the kid's life and also in her life as the partner

she is strong woman, she proved many times that. and this men already gave many red flags.