Would You Date Someone Who?

[The Siren 29,509]

yes, id rather date a guy who has the experience of things i never knew happened.

 

would you date someone who still lives with their parents (regardless of their own financial success or failure)

[LanaDelPray 13]

Not at all. Got tired of dating.

[Tana Mongeau 4,272]

7 hours ago, The Siren said:

yes, id rather date a guy who has the experience of things i never knew happened.

 

would you date someone who still lives with their parents (regardless of their own financial success or failure)

Yeah, I don’t see why that’s a massive turn off? I get if they’re maybe like 30, but equally everyone is at different points in their life and they may still be living there, working 2 jobs to support their family. Everyone has their own situation which you can’t judge.

 

Would you date someone who hates animals?

8 hours ago, West Coast said:

Yes.

 

Would you date someone from a completely different background than you with complete different views of the world/society?

Sorry this has been answered but I have to chime in. Fuck no. I’m the only open minded (aka. not racist, homophobic, transphobic and sexist) person in my house and it’s mentally draining, I ain’t doing that psychological harm to myself. Anyways sorry for interrupting the game but I had to ❤️

[Beautiful Loser 46,653]

35 minutes ago, 132 said:

Would you date someone who hates animals?

What have animals done to them to deserve hate?? No chance.

Would you date someone who doesn't drink?

[Tana Mongeau 4,272]

Just now, Beautiful Loser said:

What have animals done to them to deserve hate?? No chance.

Would you date someone who doesn't drink?

Yeah, I don’t see why you wouldn’t? We all need water to survive

[shadesofblue 8,088]

Would you date someone that hates lana 

[The Sun Also Rises 3,251]

Probably not  I would date someone who felt neutrally about Lana, but I would hate being with someone who complained every time I played her music. Plus I think a lot of the reasons for hating Lana (for example the "glorification of abuse") are really sexist and stupid, so it might potentially be a red flag 

 

Would you date someone who doesn't speak the same language (one or the other of you would have to learn?) 

[audreysdance 1,205]

Yes I think I would! It'd be so fun and maybe romantic, and we would learn something from each other which is beautiful <3

 

Would you date someone who isn't interested in your job and what you do?

[DLT 7,553]

28 minutes ago, audreysdance said:

Yes I think I would! It'd be so fun and maybe romantic, and we would learn something from each other which is beautiful <3

 

Would you date someone who isn't interested in your job and what you do?

I feel like there are levels to this-- if they just had no preference but supported me then yes but if they didn't care at all and were disassociated when I would try to talk to them about it then no because that's a sign of a bigger problem. 

 

Would you date someone who hasn't found themselves and are struggling with who they are and what they want?

 

[Make me your Dream Life 83,636]

20 hours ago, DLT said:

Would you date someone who hasn't found themselves and are struggling with who they are and what they want?

I- I wouldn't. And, as much as I love to nurture and love being supportive, I'd have to know at least that they know what it is that they want out of life. 
I want to be able to be part of their future dreams, and build a life together. 

You want to travel? I'll save so I can go with you. Have a home? I'll research on grants and run errands with you at furniture shops after grabbing lunch. 
There's a goal that you want to achieve? I'll make you a midnight snack while you stay up, and subconsciously have the topic on my radar to potentially make things easier for you. 

None of that matters if it's aimless. Struggling or having money. Let's budget. 

We can figure that out if you're open to it with me. Haven't found yourself? That's fine, I like to investigate and study the person I like. I wanna find out with you. 

But if they don't really have an idea on what they want out of life, what can we actually work towards together in a lasting way? 
Will I be there? Will you still want me? what if I end up being the only person that still wants to stay? 

I don't wanna be someone's kind of, nearby, almost meant as, foster person. 

I mean yes there's fun in going on fun and interesting dates ofc, but after some time, and potential discussion, I'd just question where we'd be at eventually. 

long answer!

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Not in a shallow way at all, but would you date someone who was vegan? it's important yes, but they were completely, unyieldingly vegan.