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  1. ChicaSkas liked a post in a topic by fessle in King Princess   
    Okay so.
    Forget About It is now maybe my favorite song by her. 
  2. cherryzandwine liked a post in a topic by fessle in Melanie Martinez   
    I surprisingly really enjoyed the song Dollhouse!
    I didn't know what to expect, but I am so glad.
     
    She was my favorite of the season she was on. I was so mad at the voice when she was eliminated. But she was good. She follows my friend on twitter!
    2 cool
  3. fessle liked a post in a topic by Elle in Explanation & Temporary Solution for those having problems liking posts, inserting images, following members, etc.   
    So for the recent issues some of you may be experiencing with auto-embedding pictures & links, liking posts, using the @ feature, etc -
    The reason why this might not be working is because your browser is blocking “insecure content” aka things encoded with http rather than https.
    While LanaBoards as a site has a SSL script, these certain features are encoded with http rather than https, which marks the site as partially insecure.
    There was a recent update with Chrome that automatically blocked “insecure content” aka http features, which has prevented many users from using the site features encoded with http.
    To fix this, I recommend following the instructions in this post.
     
    About a year ago, I actually tried to re-encode these features with https rather than http after users voiced concern about seeing the partially insecure warning, but it ended up breaking the features for everyone, so I reverted it. At the time I reached out to both Invision Power (forum software) and my host company (SSL script provider) but unfortunately this was fruitless in solving the problem. Invision Power was helpless (their support team is the worst rip) and while my host company put in a lot of effort to help me, it still didn’t solve the issue as it does seem the issue is more on IP’s side since they provide the forum features that are then encoded.
    I reached out to Invision Power again recently after everyone voiced issues about liking posts, but they haven’t been very communicative with me. Hopefully I can provide a permanent solution for everyone soon, but for now the best fix is to make sure your browser isn’t blocking “insecure content” aka http encoded features for LanaBoards. That, or using another browser that does not block this sort of content such as Firefox or Safari x
  4. fessle liked a post in a topic by Elle in Lana and Elle at Dillard’s in Huntsville, AL - September 20th, 2023   
    Okay, finally going to do the lil storytime!!
    While on our way to Huntsville, my friend and I decided we wanted Italian food once we got there, and we were deciding between Olive Garden and Carrabba’s. We joked that we’d be more likely to run into Lana in Olive Garden, but we decided on Carrabba’s instead since the OG had bad reviews lol. So, we made a reservation.
    Once we got to the hotel, I began unpacking my things and realised I forgot to bring cute shoes to wear to the concert, and the only other shoes I brought wouldn’t have gone with the outfit. So, my friend and I decided we’d make a quick stop into a store somewhere so I could get shoes before we went to dinner. We looked up what was near the Carrabba’s and there was a Dillard’s right next door.
    We’re getting ready to leave the hotel, and just as I’m about to walk out the door, I think to myself that I should bring the charm bracelet I made for her with me just in case.. so I turned around to get it and put it in my purse. Thank god I did. 
    We step into the Dillard’s and we’re looking around as we make our way to the shoes. On the upper level, I thought I saw Lana’s friend Cody from a distance, and my heart immediately dropped to my stomach. I told my friend that if he was here, there was a good chance she would be too. So, our radar was out for her, but I didn’t want to get my hopes up too much especially since I wasn’t even 100% sure it was him since he was far away. We continue looking around at the cute clothes before making our way to the bottom level where the shoes were. As we’re walking to the discounted shoes - there she was. Right in front of me. Her back was turned, but I knew it was her immediately. Rob was there with her and Annie too. I immediately panic and duck behind the other side of the shoe rack, and my friend and I are in a little huddle trying to figure out what to do. I couldn’t even form a proper sentence while speaking to my friend, my mind was just full of squiggles. I really didn’t want to be rude and bother her while shopping, but I also knew this was a once in a lifetime chance to run into Lana like this. For a moment though, I almost didn’t take it. I told my friend that maybe we should just leave her alone, but eventually she convinced me to go say hi (she’s also a longtime fan of 11 years like me, but wanted me to be the one who approached her first)
    By this time, she’s standing by a table of Gianni Bini shoes watching Annie try on a pair of boots. I start walking up to where they are and I smile and wave, and she looks at me with a big smile and I say to her, “I’m so sorry, I’m so shy, but I just wanted to say hi!” & she motions us to approach her. I don’t even remember what we initially talked about because my mind was just a bunch of squiggles, which at this point were beginning to turn neon and form into fireworks. Looking into her eyes was like looking at an angel’s soul. Lana is even more beautiful in person, which is hard to imagine since she’s already so beautiful from what we see through the screen. I was just so taken by her beauty, I couldn’t even think properly.
    I then remembered I had the bracelet with me, and asked her if I could give her something I was planning to give her at the show tomorrow. She said of course.
    I pulled out the box from my purse, but before I gave it to her I showed her my charm bracelet that I wear pretty much every day that has charms of photos I’ve taken at her concerts I’ve attended over the years. She immediately pulls out her phone and begins recording my wrist, fingering through all of the charms and recalling which locations the photos were taken at. She then calls Annie over to look at my bracelet too, and they were both in awe of it for awhile. I then told her that everyone needs a charm bracelet, so I made her once inspired by Dance Till We Die, because that song is such a reminder that no matter hard life gets to just keep dancing, and that you’re never truly alone. She opens the box and I explained the charms were tied to the opening verse, and she begins singing the song as she looks at all of the charms. She then exclaims “it’s all of my legends!” and then I said “since you’re my living legend, I just had to put myself on the bracelet too, but you can take me off easily with pliers.” and she laughed and said “I would never!” 
    She took it out of the box and tried to put it on but was having trouble doing the clasp herself, so I asked if she’d like me to put it on for her. However, I wasn’t much help because my hands were shaking so bad, and I had broken my right thumb nail a few days before which made handling the clasp more difficult. When I told her my nail was broken, she said, “Ugh! That’s always the worst!” She gets the struggle.
    I then asked if we could take a picture together that I could add to my charm bracelet, and as we took the picture she said, “you look like a little princess!” which was absolutely not true as I had been sleeping in the car shortly before this and hadn’t touched up my makeup before we left the hotel. She had called my friend “baby” during their conversation, so my friend and I bought little matching plushies and named them Princess and Baby in that honour.
    She told me I looked familiar and she knew me from somewhere, and I told her we were Instagram friends. She said “you’re right! What’s your username again?” After I told her xmissdaytona, she exclaimed “Ahh! It IS you! I see you every day!”
    She then chatted with my friend and I for awhile about where we’re from, how we met (when I told her we met from working as actresses on set together, she said “that’s very glamourous!”) and she was telling us some stories about her recent shows as we mentioned we’d be at the show tomorrow. We also chatted with Annie, who is such a sweetheart, and Rob, who we told needs to do his own tour soon! He asked us where we really wanted to visit one day that he should consider for a tour, and we said Greece. He mentioned Lana wanted to go there again.
    After an incredible 10 minutes, we said our goodbyes, and I bought some shoes before heading to Carrabbas. Our visit to Dillard’s was supposed to be a quick in and out so we missed our reservation by a bit, but it was worth it. At that point, I could barely eat as the fireworks were exploding in my mind. While we were sitting at the table, I got a notification that Lana DM’d me a heart emoji on Instagram, which continued to extend my excitement that I was still on her mind.
    On our way back to the hotel, I shuffled my Lana music for us to listen to in celebration and “My Best Days” was the first song that played. How perfect, because the next day continued the saga as Lana wore the bracelet I made her to the show and even talked about it on stage. When she went to the barrier after Ultraviolence, she walked straight to me, and showed me she was wearing the bracelet. I was so touched. I didn’t expect that either, and it truly warms my heart that she loved it enough to wear it at the show. So honoured and so grateful.
    That 48 hour span has truly been the peak of my entire life. I’ll never recover from this.
    (& I know people have been wondering if I asked her any of our burning questions, but unfortunately I didn’t. I even have my own personal list of questions I’ve always wanted to ask her, but because this run-in was completely unexpected, those questions weren’t even in my mind. Again, nothing but neon squiggles & fireworks in my brain lol. Maybe next time! Xx)
  5. fessle liked a post in a topic by Elle in Lana and Elle at Dillard’s in Huntsville, AL - September 20th, 2023   
    Lana just called me her girl   
     
     
  6. fessle liked a post in a topic by Elle in Lana and Elle at Dillard’s in Huntsville, AL - September 20th, 2023   
    Last night, Lana Del Rey stopped to meet Elle while shopping at Dillard’s in Huntsville, Alabama.
    (yes, im aware there’s already a thread for this outing, but let me have my moment. & yes, I added a ton of the built-in IG filters to our selfie bc I had literally been sleeping in the car shortly before this and hadn’t touched up my makeup because I did NOT expect this to happen.)
  7. fessle liked a post in a topic by HausofMeredith in Lana at The Tavern in Downtown Tulsa, OK - August 10th, 2023   
    I’m the one with the Pearl headband. Screaming crying throwing up! She signed my lyric book and we chatted for awhile. She was sooo sweet. I told her how much she means to me and got a little choked up and she was like “awww you are so sweet” and touched my arm haha. We talked about lyrics, touring, Oklahoma, and more. She is interested in doing a show here but you-know-who is here. I talked to her dad too. I told him his album really helps my anxiety and Lana overheard and gave me a knowing look haha. She kept saying my name and was just so freaking nice. She took time to talk to everyone even though is was super hot and then she rode away on a scooter!
  8. fessle liked a post in a topic by Elle in Chicago, IL @ Lollapalooza - August 6th, 2023   
    The scream I screamt when I realised she was playing Hope…. I’m sooooo happy I got to see Hope live, literally a song that saved my life, she could’ve just gotten on stage and sang only that song and left and I would’ve been fulfilled. If you saw me bawling in the crowd, no u didnt!! x
     
  9. Elina liked a post in a topic by fessle in From the End/Rock Me Stable/Quiet Now/Young Like Me - Post-Release Discussion Thread & Poll   
    IN WENDY
    I've only gotten through Quiet Now
    But yeah...this song is so sweet and sad and nice
     

  10. fessle liked a post in a topic by Elle in Québec, CAN @ Festival d’été de Qc - July 15th, 2023   
    Okay, you really all do need to stop being rude towards other fans. I’m serious. How would you like it if you had a special moment with Lana and then strangers online made fun of you for it? It’s clear that Lana appreciated their interaction just as much as the fan, so it should just be left at that. Nothing good comes out of making fun of strangers online.. it’s just weird behaviour x
  11. fessle liked a post in a topic by West Coast in London, UK @ BST Hyde Park - July 9th, 2023   
    She literally had all the of the Ocean Blvd features sitting backstage and she didn't bother to do a single one of them collabs. She's so unbothered and unfazed lmfao. 
  12. fessle liked a post in a topic by ultrabanisters in Lana at The Roman Baths, Bath, UK - 23rd June 2023   
    Lana Del Rey was spotted by a fan at the historic Roman Baths (23/06/2023)
     

     
  13. fessle liked a post in a topic by wilting daisy in Lana attending Jen’s birthday party at the Chateau Marmont in Los Angeles, CA - June 10th, 2023   
    everyone keeps questioning why she's taking a picture of the cake if she's not gonna post it on social media but like maybe she wants to text/email it to someone or maybe she just wants the memory on her phone or maybe she gets pictures printed for physical photo albums or to frame. like i take hundreds of pictures but i don't post any on social media.
  14. fessle liked a post in a topic by ShadesOfFool in Lana at Christ the Redeemer in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil - May 28th, 2023   
    BIG TITTIES OUT IN THE HOUSE OF GOD
  15. fessle liked a post in a topic by Elle in Lana Del Rey & Rob Grant for GQ Hype [INTERVIEW]   
    Rob Grant, Lana Del Rey’s Father, Loves Being a Nepo Daddy
    by Gabriella Paiella
      At 69, Rob Grant is releasing his debut album, Lost at Sea. He’s also been an ad man, domain developer, father to international sensation Lana Del Rey—and a huge boat enthusiast. So we spent an afternoon cruising up the Hudson with him and his daughter. 
    GQ Hype: It's the big story of right now.
    Rob Grant is a big boat guy. We’re sailing up the Hudson river in a classic leisure yacht, the Full Moon. This isn’t his boat, but it sure is a nice one. He grew up in Rhode Island, adventuring on a beloved sloop called Erewhon. (Named after the 1872 utopian novel by Samuel Butler, not the Los Angeles grocery store with $20 smoothies.) Now he lives on Anna Maria Island, Florida, where he sails plenty in the Gulf of Mexico. It’s a comically perfect late spring day, the kind of day invented by God precisely to cruise around on a boat and do fuck all. Grant has white hair, a tan, and the mellow aura of, well, a big boat guy.
    At 69 years old, Grant is in the midst of promoting his debut album, Lost at Sea, which is out on June 9th. Whenever Grant would crash at his eldest daughter’s house in LA, he’d often find himself playing her old, out-of-tune piano. He wasn’t classically trained or anything, choosing instead to hit whatever notes instinctively flowed out of him. If his daughter heard a chord progression that clicked, she’d join him. Soon enough, they had a couple of songs between them. 
    “She’ll start singing and the songs will come together magically, but in a very beautiful, organic, intuitive way,” Grant tells me. “There's no planning.” 
    “It’s so cool to create music with my daughter,” he adds. “Because we really are very simpatico.” 
    “Oh yeah,” his daughter chimes in, an ethereal sparkle in her voice. “I like what I like.” 
    His daughter, I should mention, happens to be Lana Del Rey. As in: internationally famous singer-songwriter Lana Del Rey. 
    Yes: Lana. She’s next to her father, both of them sipping sugar free Red Bulls. In her white Los Angeles 1984 sweatshirt, black skirt, and white sneakers, the high priestess of mystery and melancholy appears disorientingly normal. On this four-hour boat tour, she could be any millennial daughter good-naturedly spending the afternoon with her boomer dad, were she not, you know, Lana Del Rey. 
    Her presence is a slight surprise. A few days beforehand, Grant mentioned that his daughter might want to join. By the time we set sail, Lana, who flew in from LA to support her dad, is blasting Kodak Black on the speakers to set the mood. Later, she’ll step in to help stage daughter her father during the photo shoot, advising him on how to best angle his face. (“Maybe don’t smile, Dad.”) 
    With all the cultural discussion around the prevalence of nepo babies—children of celebrities who have a leg up, especially in the arts—Grant occupies a unique, singular role. He may be the world’s first, and perhaps only, nepo daddy. Papa Del Rey. And, hey, he’ll take it. 
    “The nepo daddy thing I love,” he says, having first encountered the concept in his Instagram comments. “I thought, My God, this would make really cool merch.”
    “I mean, at that point, he was on his own, obviously,” Lana says with a laugh. 
    “I'm happy to be the first nepo daddy,” Grant says. 
    Lana points out that he’s not technically the first nepo daddy, what with Mitch Winehouse trying to make it as a jazz musician after daughter Amy’s untimely death. 
    “Well see, back then, during Mitch's time they didn't have nepo babies. It's only because of the whole nepo baby thing. Who wrote that story?” Grant asks. 
    “Someone without a brain…” Lana says, taking a puff of her cherry red vape. “It's just another way to rile simple folks up.”
    As we make our way up the river, the silver skyscrapers on shore give way to dense, peaceful woodlands. An immaculate American flag flown from the boat’s stern snaps and sways in the breeze. It’s enough to make anyone a big boat guy.
    “Nobody wants to give anyone any credit for doing anything,” Grant adds. “God forbid that you actually have talent. People don't want to acknowledge that. They will find a way to undermine you and to really make you feel bad about yourself. So the nepo daddy thing, I love that. Hell, I'll sell you hats, T-shirts, canvas bags, you name it.” 
    “Fuckin’ Barnum & Bailey over here,” Lana jokes back.  
    That said, you can now actually buy his “Nepo Daddy” branded t-shirts—in both full-length and crop tops.
     And credit where credit is due. Lost at Sea is a wholly intriguing, unexpected debut album, where transportative piano chords meet a trippy ambient soundscape. Lana lends her voice and lyrics, smokey and full, to the songs “Lost at Sea” and “Hollywood Bowl.” The first time he heard the title track, Grant was so overcome with emotion that he burst into tears.
    The two first collaborated on “Sweet Carolina,” a song on Lana’s 2021 album Blue Bannisters. When they were recording, Lana would be about five hours late to the studio. Rob was early, as dads tend to be. Once, he asked the producers to record him while he played the piano for 75 minutes straight. 
    They were taken aback. So was Lana’s manager, Ben Mawson, who liked what he heard so much that he started shopping it around, landing at Decca Records. Super producer Jack Antonoff and ambient master crafter Luke Howard stepped in to help Grant shape his songs, and the long stream of consciousness recordings were partitioned into individual tracks.   
    Mawson has known Rob, through Lana, for over a decade now. “Well, Rob’s the pop star,” he tells me, when I ask about the similarities between father and daughter. “No, I’m joking but… Rob probably enjoys the limelight maybe a bit more than Lana does. He’s more comfortable in the spotlight.” 
    The ocean has been a constant, renewable source of inspiration for Grant. He has actually been lost at sea at times, stranded alone in heavy fog out in the Atlantic, which he recounts with excitement. Both father and daughter have a taste for storm chasing. He also seeks out his thrills by shark fishing—he regales me with a story about a 12-footer dragging his boat for two and a half hours—though he always throws them back.
    Beyond the album title, most of the songs have nautical names, like “Moon Rise Over the Ocean,” “Setting Sail On a Distant Horizon,” and “The Poetry Of Wind and Waves.” A six-minute ambient looped track called “The Mermaids Lullaby” is what Ariel might hear if she did shrooms in Joshua Tree. 
    Lana, who’s been watching her father deep-sea fish for years (and included a song titled “Grandfather please stand on the shoulders of my father while he's deep-sea fishing” on her most recent album) was interested in seeing how he translated those experiences into music. “It’s fun that there's more of a tangible outcome from all of that time alone on the water,” she tells him. 
    As an adult, Grant landed in New York City, working in advertising on Madison Avenue. He came up with the Playtex bra slogan “Thank Goodness It Fits,” which turned into a $500 million campaign. The job was demanding and its pressures unrelenting. It was the ‘80s version of Mad Men; trade in the three-martini lunch for a frazzled coworker doing deskside coke. Grant would often linger in a small bookstore near his office, where he would flip through guides about fly fishing and the outdoors, dreaming of a simpler life. 
    When Lana was born (née Lizzy Grant), he and her mom found themselves dragging a stroller up a five-story walk-up. They realized they had to get out. The family moved up to Lake Placid, in the Adirondacks. (Mom and Rob are now both in Florida.) He was working as a real estate agent, though he kept an eye on a nascent thing called the internet. Grant realized that nobody would be searching his name when looking for a house. But something like, say, AdirondackRealEstate.com? That was gold. 
    So he started buying up domain names. Bought all his kids’ names. Their stage names, too. And all these years later, he still knows a good domain name when he sees it. 
    For instance, when all the nepo daddy stuff went down. “I went ‘Oh, shit. I've got to own that.’ I went out and registered the domain. So you type in ‘nepo daddy’,” he says, proudly, “and I pop up.” 
    During Lana’s childhood, the two of them bonded musically over Paul Simon and the Beach Boys. He says he always knew she had musical talent, back from when she was a toddler and would serenade their next door neighbor. “Al, what a great guy he was,” he remembers. “She just sang all day.” Grant also tried his hand at trying to become a country star, around the time Lana was 11. He went down to Nashville with a song he had written called “Big Bubba.” Lana pulls up a video on her phone of a grainy old home movie where she and her siblings, sister Chuck and brother Charlie, dance along to it as children. 
    Trouble was, the country producer was offended because he thought that the track was making a mockery of a typical country song. And he was doubly offended when Grant said something about how bad most country music was in those days, citing a specific song. Turns out the guy he was talking to had produced it. 
    Thus was the end of Grant’s musical career—until Lost at Sea. 
    “I do love that story,” Lana says, with a smile. “I also did a similar thing with an artist I won't say. I got kicked out of the office.” 
    They are in tune in a lot of other ways: both are big on trusting their intuitions. They consider each other friends. They love to hang in Vegas. Lana may have an entire oeuvre that hints at daddy issues (she literally titled a song “Daddy Issues”) but the two seem to have a close, healthy relationship. 
    And Rob, in his own way, has a keen instinct for fame and self-promotion. Take the cover shot of his album, which has him out at sea with seagulls surrounding him. It was unplanned, the result of his daughter Chuck taking a photo of him on a fishing boat. 
    “That's because that was supposed to be a family trip,” Lana points out. 
    “But everything becomes a photo shoot,” he says. 
    “Well,” she answers. “It does if you bring 11 Hawaiian shirts and say, ‘Shoot! Shoot!’”
    Even before this album, Rob has been a recognizable part of the Lana Del Rey Cinematic Universe. 
    “He's the only fucking reason why we get stopped at TJ Maxx,” Lana says. “If I'm with you, then there is zero chance that we're having a calm day at Marshall's.” 
    “I wouldn’t say that,” Rob says, smiling. 
    “They love Rob because Rob loves them,” she says, about her fans. He reads all the letters they send in, and stands there for hours to chat after concerts. 
    “Yeah, I do love them,” he agrees. “What's not to love? I mean, my God.” 
    It’s yet to be seen if Rob will go on tour, but he is thinking of opening for Lana. Just him at the piano in a tropical shirt. Maybe. 
    “This is all so new for me. The idea of going out and actually going on a big stage and playing, that's still intimidating to me. I'm willing to try it,” Rob says. “It’s really more if I'm with Lana, I don't want to screw her up.” 
    “There is nothing to ruin here,” she says, with a glittering smile. “We have seen and done it all.” 
  16. fessle liked a post in a topic by kraljicabenzinske in Paris, Texas   
    she's so real for that
  17. fessle liked a post in a topic by emliqua in Festivals & Tour 2023   
    THIS!  I’ll still be there no matter what tho lol
  18. fessle liked a post in a topic by x VB in Festivals & Tour 2023   
    Leak the dates and spare us from new meltdowns
  19. unlluminated liked a post in a topic by fessle in Unpopular Lana Opinions   
    I'm very surprised by the reaction people have had to A&W both on the forum and on social media.. I love LDR but I can't love that song haha
    I don't think it has longevity, but I could be wrong
  20. Velours liked a post in a topic by fessle in Unpopular Lana Opinions   
    I'm very surprised by the reaction people have had to A&W both on the forum and on social media.. I love LDR but I can't love that song haha
    I don't think it has longevity, but I could be wrong
  21. fessle liked a post in a topic by Blossom in Unpopular Lana Opinions   
    Riverside is one of my favourite Lana songs 
  22. Elina liked a post in a topic by fessle in Unpopular Lana Opinions   
    I'm very surprised by the reaction people have had to A&W both on the forum and on social media.. I love LDR but I can't love that song haha
    I don't think it has longevity, but I could be wrong
  23. stillrun liked a post in a topic by fessle in Unpopular Lana Opinions   
    I'm very surprised by the reaction people have had to A&W both on the forum and on social media.. I love LDR but I can't love that song haha
    I don't think it has longevity, but I could be wrong
  24. one time beauty queen liked a post in a topic by fessle in Unpopular Lana Opinions   
    I'm very surprised by the reaction people have had to A&W both on the forum and on social media.. I love LDR but I can't love that song haha
    I don't think it has longevity, but I could be wrong
  25. fessle liked a post in a topic by rightofjupiter in Unpopular Lana Opinions   
    the white dress erasure alone has been shocking! 
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