bluefiona 8,050 Posted October 17, 2019 I don't find this cute or funny. I find it disrespectful and immature. Like, you're accepting an award. Grow up, put the fucking vape down for 20 seconds, and say something that isn't basic af, or that at least isn't peppered with "fucking"s. You're a fucking writer. https://twitter.com/MusicWeek/status/1184518725233528833 Two things she can't let go of: her vaping and the word "fuck". 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
trailer park 249 Posted October 17, 2019 I don't find this cute or funny. I find it disrespectful and immature. Like, you're accepting an award. Grow up, put the fucking vape down for 20 seconds, and say something that isn't basic af, or that at least isn't peppered with "fucking"s. You're a fucking writer. https://twitter.com/MusicWeek/status/1184518725233528833 that's actually pretty embarrassing tbh there are instances (like this one) where you have to present yourself in a serious manner (or you can't expect other people to take you seriously at times) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rorman Nockwell 56,751 Posted October 17, 2019 . 1 Quote ur legit gonna look the same stop buying oil of Olay face cream Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bluefiona 8,050 Posted October 17, 2019 Exactly. She clearly wants people to take her seriously but lately, it's as if everything is a joke to her. And people think this woman should win a Grammy. Imagine she wins a Grammy and throws F Bombs in her speech? I can picture it. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WildMustang 14,759 Posted October 17, 2019 I don't find this cute or funny. I find it disrespectful and immature. Like, you're accepting an award. Grow up, put the fucking vape down for 20 seconds, and say something that isn't basic af, or that at least isn't peppered with "fucking"s. You're a fucking writer. https://twitter.com/MusicWeek/status/1184518725233528833 She acts like a cool aunt 3 Quote ...just you and me feeling the heat even when the sun goes down... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slumdog 817 Posted October 20, 2019 I hate how she and especially her fandom push this romanticised "the other woman" narrative. If you are aware that your lover is cheating on his/her partner you are just as disgusting as the cheater himself. Thank you! I've said this before and got ridiculed lol. She acts like a cool aunt I feel like Lana used to be so effortlessly cool, especially during the Born To Die era. But now she kind of lost her "mystic"/mysterious aura. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lcampoli 44 Posted October 20, 2019 As someone who hasn't seen Lana live and who doesn't watch videos of her concerts, I would like to see her sing Off to the Races. It seems like it could be such an explosive crazy performance, but how some people make it sound... idek. I just wish she would put effort into something, anything. I saw it at the 'Endless Summer' in Toronto. It was probably the most noticeably back tracked song (w/ vocals), but it really showcased the band for those of us who couldn't take selfies with her in the front row. She opened that show with 'Cruel World' and sang her goddamn heart out. Wasn't a perfect show, but at the same time in retrospect everything about it makes perfect sense. Also fuck awards and fuck grammys. I hope she doesn't win just so jack antonoff can cry about it 7 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
daphnedinkley 13,487 Posted October 20, 2019 Summer Bummer is deeply underrated - I understand why much of the fandom wouldn't appreciate it because of how heavily hip-hop it is, but I think it's this brilliant combination of dark yet charming, light yet heavy, hard-hitting yet laidback. It's danceable and a real summer jam but it's also a little sinister and devilish. Also I fckn LOVE the lyrics: "You can't escape my affection, wrap you up in my daisy chains"; "White lines and black beaches and miles in between us"; "We travel for weeks just to escape your demons". 19 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Angel 202,394 Posted October 23, 2019 I'm always going to get the titles "Hey Blue Baby" and "Baby Blue Love" mixed up. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
daphnedinkley 13,487 Posted October 27, 2019 i think JFK is soooo cheesy, how it's a lot of people's fav unreleased is beyond me 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Venice 6,933 Posted October 27, 2019 Summer Bummer is deeply underrated - I understand why much of the fandom wouldn't appreciate it because of how heavily hip-hop it is, but I think it's this brilliant combination of dark yet charming, light yet heavy, hard-hitting yet laidback. It's danceable and a real summer jam but it's also a little sinister and devilish. Also I fckn LOVE the lyrics: "You can't escape my affection, wrap you up in my daisy chains"; "White lines and black beaches and miles in between us"; "We travel for weeks just to escape your demons". Oh my god are you me Saaaame. That song was the highlight of my summer that year tbh. Especially those lines. Such a gangsta queen, sigh. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
daphnedinkley 13,487 Posted October 29, 2019 Oh my god are you me Saaaame. That song was the highlight of my summer that year tbh. Especially those lines. Such a gangsta queen, sigh. it is SUCH a bop 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Moooooooo 95 Posted November 7, 2019 Her lyrics and message of her songs are heavily romanticizing abusive, addictive, and codependent relationships. I know a lot of girls growing up hearing that and having it kind of, mold their perspective into their early twenties is supppper harmful. Do I still find it romantic? YEAH, LOL. But it's fucked up. 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bluefiona 8,050 Posted November 7, 2019 Her lyrics and message of her songs are heavily romanticizing abusive, addictive, and codependent relationships. I know a lot of girls growing up hearing that and having it kind of, mold their perspective into their early twenties is supppper harmful. Do I still find it romantic? YEAH, LOL. But it's fucked up. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ultra Violet 18,986 Posted November 7, 2019 Her lyrics and message of her songs are heavily romanticizing abusive, addictive, and codependent relationships. I know a lot of girls growing up hearing that and having it kind of, mold their perspective into their early twenties is supppper harmful. Do I still find it romantic? YEAH, LOL. But it's fucked up. I am yet to see someone who has actually taken to it that way... Maybe the younger crowd that I don't f with... I had 2 friends that listened to lana and anytime I mentioned "oh I love this, one, not that I relate but it's the best song" they would go on about how much they relate to it (like how their ex was apparently a serial killer and went to jail and how they slept with an older man and blah blah) and I was like geeez it's not a competition and you should'nt be proud to relate THAT close to her songs. It got really cringey, like every single song they claimed they related to completely and therefore deserved to like the songs more or something. Glad I'm not friends with them anymore because one was a sociopath (with an actual diagnosis) and one a compulsive liar, which I cannot handle. 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Moooooooo 95 Posted November 8, 2019 I am yet to see someone who has actually taken to it that way... Maybe the younger crowd that I don't f with... I had 2 friends that listened to lana and anytime I mentioned "oh I love this, one, not that I relate but it's the best song" they would go on about how much they relate to it (like how their ex was apparently a serial killer and went to jail and how they slept with an older man and blah blah) and I was like geeez it's not a competition and you should'nt be proud to relate THAT close to her songs. It got really cringey, like every single song they claimed they related to completely and therefore deserved to like the songs more or something. Glad I'm not friends with them anymore because one was a sociopath (with an actual diagnosis) and one had bpd which was fine but it also made her a compulsive liar, which I cannot handle. MMh moreso the music industry in general, but come on just take a deeper look into some of the tones of her lyrics. "It's you, it's you, it's all for you, everything I do" "I'm not afraid to say I'd die without him, Who else is gonna put up with me this way?" "I'll never leave you" I could go on forever. "He hit me and it felt like a kiss" it's normalizing this kinda thinking to people who already tend to think that way. I dunno if I articulated that right, but I know I'm right. 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddisease 17,941 Posted November 8, 2019 I am yet to see someone who has actually taken to it that way... Maybe the younger crowd that I don't f with... I had 2 friends that listened to lana and anytime I mentioned "oh I love this, one, not that I relate but it's the best song" they would go on about how much they relate to it (like how their ex was apparently a serial killer and went to jail and how they slept with an older man and blah blah) and I was like geeez it's not a competition and you should'nt be proud to relate THAT close to her songs. It got really cringey, like every single song they claimed they related to completely and therefore deserved to like the songs more or something. Glad I'm not friends with them anymore because one was a sociopath (with an actual diagnosis) and one had bpd which was fine but it also made her a compulsive liar, which I cannot handle. a person with BPD isn't a compulsive liar just bc they have BPD. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ultra Violet 18,986 Posted November 8, 2019 a person with BPD isn't a compulsive liar just bc they have BPD. I know that, and I knew someone would pull me up. It just felt like it was... connected, like I couldn't tell the two apart but I know that's just my lack of education on those particular diagnoses. Edited! MMh moreso the music industry in general, but come on just take a deeper look into some of the tones of her lyrics. "It's you, it's you, it's all for you, everything I do" "I'm not afraid to say I'd die without him, Who else is gonna put up with me this way?" "I'll never leave you" I could go on forever. "He hit me and it felt like a kiss" it's normalizing this kinda thinking to people who already tend to think that way. I dunno if I articulated that right, but I know I'm right. When asked about those lyrics before, I believed her when she said she was just speaking from her own experiences and how it felt at the time. At least now she's acknowledged that "he hit me and it felt like a kiss" is toxic asf and stopped singing it (but then forgot, and sang it more recently) lolll 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
West Coast 45,795 Posted November 8, 2019 Surprise, surprise. I have honestly not been into a Lana album from start to finish after Honeymoon. Not to say that I don't like songs on both Lust for Life and NFR!, but there are just elements on both albums that make me not enjoy them to the fullest. Mainly the lyricism and trap beats on LFL and the horrendous production/mastering on NFR!. 7 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChicaCherryCola 1,393 Posted November 8, 2019 I always thought that when young girls said they could relate to her songs, they meant the feeling, not the actual situations. And being proud of some of those... gosh, I'm sorry for them. Like, for instance, I don't really listen to Video Games, but when she says "they say that the world was built for two, only worth living if somebody is loving you", I can say I perfectly understand what she means and that I feel it, but I also recognize it's not healthy to have that mindset. I think it's one of those kind of things people feel from time to time, despite knowing it's bad for them. Being able to relate to a song in that way is like a truthful guilty pleasure. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites