Speculations on Lana's relationship with her mother

[Churchome Rep 3,393]

I can’t believe Lana went there to address her mommy issues more directly. For the longest time, I thought she wouldn’t talk about her tumultuous life pre-fame (until like her family members passed away) a la that fight she had with Ann Powers 

[Flowerbomb 65,597]

I relate to Lana's relationship with her mother. My own mother is hostile towards me most of the time and I genuinely can't remember the last time we hugged. Come to think of it, I'm pretty sure she only hugged me a total of four times growing up. But that's the funny thing, some girls have a "my mum is my best friend" relationship, and others not so much. I think a lot of mothers can be incredibly judgemental towards their daughters because they see their daughters as a reflection of themselves, and when their daughters don't mirror the image they want then they get bitchy and overall just plain spiteful.

 

But obviously we don't know the details of Lana's mother so I'll leave it at that, but I understand Lana's reasoning for mentioning her. 

[BluebirdXO 7,679]

Lana was so brave for bringing this up.

 

 

I had a terrible relationship with my mother when I was a child and that set us apart forever. And it wasn't even real abuse (not compared with what I had seen over there), but it still was a very abusive relationship at a young age. I can't even remember my childhood because I had to repress everything to still have a relationship with my mother. My heart really stopped and my mouth got dry when she said that line. I hope no one burns her for that and that she receives lots of love

[Creyk 11,825]

Teachers usually make horrible parents because they have to deal with kids bs all day and they develop this stance of "the teacher is right, the child is wrong" and then they preserve this attitude even in their home life when their own child needs their support. But they don't give that, instead when there is a school-related conflict they take the school's side and don't stand up for their kid and often even blame them, saying for sure the teacher is right and the child is wrong. This is a breeding ground for negative emotional wounds that then fester and have long-term effects. I am not surprised at all and Patty deserves to be dragged for her psycho behavior.

[ryanmj1993 35]

Does anybody find it odd that Rob hasn't mentioned these singles at all? He usually posts something about her singles/albums.

[May 13,318]

2 minutes ago, ryanmj1993 said:

Does anybody find it odd that Rob hasn't mentioned these singles at all? He usually posts something about her singles/albums.

it’s not weird, what would ur reaction be if ur husband went on Twitter and started publicly stanning for a song which calls ur wife out for being a cunt?

[gatadelrey 4,617]

21 minutes ago, ryanmj1993 said:

Does anybody find it odd that Rob hasn't mentioned these singles at all? He usually posts something about her singles/albums.

No but he did like the post she put on Instagram before she deleted it. 

[Turtledove 547]

I imagine she is being reminded of her own mom-daughter experience as she see's Chuck becoming a mom. We are likely in store for some interesting revelations

[anwdelrey 9,272]

I thought the lyric was “hospital stints still on my feet.”

Like because of the abuse she experienced she still is in and out of hospitals/treatment centres even in her adult life. I could be wrong though.

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11 minutes ago, anwdelrey said:

I thought the lyric was “hospital stints still on my feet.”

Like because of the abuse she experienced she still is in and out of hospitals/treatment centres even in her adult life. I could be wrong though.

I heard “Laid up in hospitals, standstill on morphine”, but I’m pretty sure that’s not it/she’s saying “my feet”. Interesting what we’re all hearing. Hopefully lyrics are printed on the booklet 

[Rorman Nockwell 57,289]

It really is very sad and it seems as if the damage is too deep to ever be repaired.

She doesn't even refer to her mother as her mother. Instead, it's "my father's wife" and then also there's the sense of betrayal by her dad.

 

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[ShadesOfFool 20,319]

Patty is catching strays all over this album I’m crying

[The Grants 13,563]

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i dont wanna get too deep into lana’s family but I really wonder how is her siblings and father relationship with patty 

 

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7 minutes ago, kaliuchis said:

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i dont wanna get too deep into lana’s family but I really wonder how is her siblings and father relationship with patty 

 

omg yes I always wonder about this

You never see ANY photos of her either it’s so weird it’s like she’s dead 

[Lanaparadiserey 24,425]

Are Rob and Patrica still married? I’m guessing they but he never post anything of her 

[Dark Angel 205,193]

it seems like patricia doesn't really like being in the spotlight, so that's probably why we never see any photos of her, i'm sure with lana's known disdain for her now, she'll especially want to stay private

[paradisetropico 7,990]

13 minutes ago, Lanaparadiserey said:

Are Rob and Patrica still married? I’m guessing they but he never post anything of her 

random but I was driving down sunset blvd one day during the time Chuck was pregnant and Rob and Patty were outside of some restaurant hotel thing just chilling...... I was with my friend and driving so I did not stop but I also am curious how it works 🧐😔

[Lanaparadiserey 24,425]

2 minutes ago, paradisetropico said:

random but I was driving down sunset blvd one day during the time Chuck was pregnant and Rob and Patty were outside of some restaurant hotel thing just chilling...... I was with my friend and driving so I did not stop but I also am curious how it works 🧐😔

I’m sure they just don’t discuss Patty in front of Lana.

[Fingertips 72,053]

I lowkey want to know more about Patty, I hope this record shares more